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If I could answer that question, I could provide the rationale for every illegal and unethical act ever committed. Sometimes there is no answer. We won't ever know.
What made you ask this on a nursing forum? As though all nurses have some sort of psychic link into one another's psyche? Trying to take a shot at nurses?
Anger and hurting people is actually a self protective mechanism. Humans are the only animals who murder without a reason. This is why I don't work with older people or dementias: I cannot stand the whiny, demanding, high-care, entitlement attitude that older people especially have. Not all are like this of course, but the place I worked in last week, they were all high on pain patches & pills and most of them were extremely demanding. I will never go back to working in that field again.
Anger and hurting people is actually a self protective mechanism. Humans are the only animals who murder without a reason. This is why I don't work with older people or dementias: I cannot stand the whiny, demanding, high-care, entitlement attitude that older people especially have. Not all are like this of course, but the place I worked in last week, they were all high on pain patches & pills and most of them were extremely demanding. I will never go back to working in that field again.
There is nothing self protective about being abusive. There are evil people in the world and, unfortunately, some of them end up in nursing....or teaching or law...
We are all the same. All of us have the potential for violence. All of us have the potential to harm someone else. I don't believe for one second that any segment of our society has the market cornered on atrocities.
The difference is, some of us have self control mechanisms that work better than others.
can someone please tell me what would make people harm the patients placed in thier care?? i keep reading about nurses and cnas and other staff abusing, neglecting and even killing thier charges. i don't understand why they feel the need to do this. yes, i take care of patients who are abusive to staff, some are aware of what they are doing others are not. still i would never knowingly or willingly do harm to any of them.
what in the bajingers are you reading?
to understand a psychopath is not a good thing....give it up, or seek help....
Some nurses are just terrible people. It's like anything else.
I finally had to report a nurse on dayshift (I'm nights) a couple weeks ago and now refuse to take pts from her. It was always something with my pts when I got them from her. Medications weren't given, labs weren't drawn, the room was a mess, the pt was connected to pumps with no fluids hanging, etc. Then one night she was giving me report on a pt and just talking horribly about her, finally saying "She's from California, which explains what her problem is," to which I informed her, "My family is from California." A little while later while I was at the nurses station looking over my pts for the night, I heard a pt screaming for help. The ward clerk and myself looked up and started looking around and realized what room it was coming from. What'd I find? That nurse sitting on a laptop right by the door ignoring the pt's screams for help. Unacceptable.
There are people like her everywhere and, unfortunately, they are allowed to take care of people. I understand burnout and having bad nights, but there's no excuse for constantly neglecting your pts.
gentlegiver, ASN, LPN, RN
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Can someone please tell me what would make people harm the patients placed in thier care?? I keep reading about Nurses and CNAs and other staff abusing, neglecting and even killing thier charges. I don't understand why they feel the need to do this. Yes, I take care of patients who are abusive to staff, some are aware of what they are doing others are not. Still I would never knowingly or willingly do harm to any of them.