I'm so sorry you have to go through this, that really hurts. I went to bed one night with a little cold and a dose of nyquil, and woke up in the wee AM with "drool" on my pillow, got up, used the bathroom in the dark, went back to bed and bam!, pain, pain, pain. Went back to the bathroom, turned the light on and saw the blood stuck to the side of my face. AH well, so I got over a month of antibiotics and had to keep the thing packed with cotton balls and vaseline, and it was interesting trying to wash my hair.
The ringing was for me about 2-3 days. The pain was several weeks, I had 800 mg motrin every 8 hours and I kept working through this. Lucky I was at home with 2 babies in diapers and babysitting two other kids. So it was, do one thing then go sit down for a few minutes. It took all day to feed the kids! Also it made me lose weight because for some reason, the sound of food crunching made me nauseous. I would rather do a lot of things than have to go through that again. The hearing returned in that ear about 3 months later, by which time I was convinced it was gone for good.