I finished my first year in a two year RN program.
During my summer off, I decided I would take the time to foster some kittens. I ended up with four newborn babies, found on somebody's door step.
I've been nursing them around the clock for the past week. Two days ago the smallest, weakest one died. Then, today I was in the animal hospital again with a second fading kitten. On my way out of the door to the hospital, frantic with my three remaining kittens and fumbling with the screen, one of my babies lept out of the box and fell. Now, this kitten is brain damaged and will most likely need to be put to sleep. The doctor/vet said it is likely that the litter contracted a virus in utero, and that what they had was either already set, or contagious. She said that most likely the last remaining kittens would pass shortly.
I've been crying and miserable. On top of the stress of loosing these little creatures that have been so dear to me, I am afraid of how this reflects on me as a nurse. Not in the sense that i failed in my care for them because they are sick- I understand that this is beyond control. I am more afraid of how my reaction to all of this reflects on me as a nurse. I am going to pieces over kittens... if I work in a NICU, how could I possibly handle loosing a patient? (I have been considering this for my career). How can I handle loosing a human of any age, for that matter?
Could anybody reflect on this for me? I am having a problem getting outside of my own head at the moment.
thank you and much love..