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  1. by   nurs4kids
    I do NOT condone child porn, nor do I think Suzy does. Why is that being suggested? Not once did Suzy say she or her hubby owns, views or enjoys child porn! Child porn disgust me terribly. Hubby and I have actually had arguments because of LEGAL porn pics of "adults" who look like young teens. There's a magazine called, "Barely 18" or something like that..every chick in there looks 12-16 to me, but it's sold in most quick marts. Go right now and do a search for "porn"..I guarantee you'll get tons of returns for child porn...also, most of the adult porn sites will have pics looking like young teens. Most men just prefer looking at younger (NO, not kids) attractive women than older, wrinkled ones. You're saying if the pics LOOK like child porn, then they're illegal. So, if a 19yr old poses nude, it's illegal because she LOOKS 15?? not.

    Child porn sickens me. I don't even care for any form of pornography. But, I have enough self confidence to allow my hubby to view porn if he chooses and I imagine the same can be said of Suzy. Pornography IS legal, and I don't see anything Suzy has said here that indicates she or her hubby are doing anything illegal...so, why is she being warned?


    Again, our beef is with invasion of privacy. We're not endorsing the protection of pedophiles, just the right of protection against illegal search and seizure.
  2. by   flowerchild
    it's pornspam...don't know anyone who hasn't gotten it...

    I never get it.
    Here's how: Set your defaults and filters to filter email smam with you isp and on your program for email.

    Empty your cookies, tempory internet files and history frequently. You can set defaults to do this too, usually. I delete my history daily and the others weekly. I have cable access to the internet so everything loads immediatly which means no need for cookies, etc. Just be sure you write down your passwords and names where you are registered as this may delete the memory of these items.

    Watch under your favorites that a site hasn't attached itself to your favorites without your knowledge and delete them when they appear.

    Avoid visiting sites that contain porn. If you visit one, it will inundate your system with cookies, links, etc. that involve porn.

    To avoid others from peeping into your computer files, use a firewall.

    To avoid viruses, worms, etc. you must have an up to date protection program. I use PC-cillin and it is excellent. Be sure you get automatic updates by setting your default accordingly.
  3. by   Q.
    Originally posted by flowerchild
    And I gotta ask, Do you own your own server?
    Yes I do.
  4. by   Q.
    Tracy,
    I appreciate your post. I can only imagine what spawned it (as certain posts here I cannot see) but make no mistake, threats against posters here (which include me) are certainly not tolerated on allnurses as well. And if anyone here has a particular belief against me, I encourage you to report it to the authorities. And I'll see your azz in court for slander, even if it even got that far - seeing as posts here in a BB community are very hard to determine origin or even authenticity. I think some people need to update themselves on the LACK of internet laws....but anyway....

    Time to bow out of this thread. See ya!
    Last edit by Susy K on Nov 16, '02
  5. by   Stargazer
    Originally posted by Youda
    I'd rethink your morals if I were you. You're jeapordizing an awful lot for your so-called "entertainment."
    This is an inexcusably judgemental statement to make about the legal, private activities of an adult married couple whom you do not know.

    I hardly think it's your place to judge the "morals" of Susy and her husband, or anyone else for that matter, based on a few posts on an internet bulletin board.
  6. by   Youda
    Originally posted by flowerchild
    I never get it.
    Here's how: Set your defaults and filters to filter email smam with you isp and on your program for email.

    Empty your cookies, tempory internet files and history frequently.
    I also use PC-Cillin, and it's the BEST, IMHO.
    I also run weekly a program called Ad-Aware, because this program will catch any entries made to your system registry or programs hidden on your computer that can involve porn spam. You can download Ad-aware free on the internet.

    Well, gang, have fun debating privacy vs. child porn, I have a pizza in the oven and a movie to watch, and a friend at the door.
  7. by   Youda
    Originally posted by Stargazer
    This is an inexcusably judgemental statement to make about the legal, private activities of an adult married couple whom you do not know.

    I hardly think it's your place to judge the "morals" of Susy and her husband, or anyone else for that matter, based on a few posts on an internet bulletin board.
    Almost got outta here!

    Whoa, Stargazer! Read the entire thread. Suzy has stated quite clearly on this thread that she has a right to her and her husband's child porn. Maybe it was deleted when she edited some of her posts. But, if she meant this in the hypothetical to argue her privacy rights, and that it's OK to have child porn because the law doesn't have the right to look into her computer, then she needs to clarify that. As for "judging" those who condone, use, store, or argue for child porn under the pretext of "privacy", YEP, you can certainly call me judgemental, because I think it's seriously wrong and morally depraved. It's also against the law.

    Leaving this thread now while you all "hack" me to pieces and flame me to your hearts content for questioning some of the really biazzare statements and assertions on this thread.
  8. by   SKM-NURSIEPOOH
    originally posted by nurs4kids
    i do not condone child porn, nor do i think suzy does. why is that being suggested? not once did suzy say she or her hubby owns, views or enjoys child porn! child porn disgust me terribly. hubby and i have actually had arguments because of legal porn pics of "adults" who look like young teens. there's a magazine called, "barely 18" or something like that..every chick in there looks 12-16 to me, but it's sold in most quick marts. go right now and do a search for "porn"..i guarantee you'll get tons of returns for child porn...also, most of the adult porn sites will have pics looking like young teens. most men just prefer looking at younger (no, not kids) attractive women than older, wrinkled ones. you're saying if the pics look like child porn, then they're illegal. so, if a 19yr old poses nude, it's illegal because she looks 15?? not.

    child porn sickens me. i don't even care for any form of pornography. but, i have enough self confidence to allow my hubby to view porn if he chooses and i imagine the same can be said of suzy. pornography is legal, and i don't see anything suzy has said here that indicates she or her hubby are doing anything illegal...so, why is she being warned?


    again, our beef is with invasion of privacy. we're not endorsing the protection of pedophiles, just the right of protection against illegal search and seizure.
    i like to know the answer to this question too tracy!!! the point that susy was making was that illegal searches of people's private computer files is wrong. at the time she made this point, she didn't have knowledge that this guy had in fact uploaded 1,500 pics & post several of them on his website. all she was saying by bravely using her husband's unfortunate experience with some files being downloaded that he himself didn't want downloaded. now people seem to want to tar & feather poor susy about it...that's not right nor is it fair. everyone here is intelligent enough to know what she was saying...she doesn't need to be bashed about her husband's experience. enough said - moe.
  9. by   sunnygirl272
    Originally posted by Youda
    Almost got outta here!

    Whoa, Stargazer! Read the entire thread. Suzy has stated quite clearly on this thread that she has a right to her and her husband's child porn. Maybe it was deleted when she edited some of her posts. But, if she meant this in the hypothetical to argue her privacy rights, and that it's OK to have child porn because the law doesn't have the right to look into her computer, then she needs to clarify that. As for "judging" those who condone, use, store, or argue for child porn under the pretext of "privacy", YEP, you can certainly call me judgemental, because I think it's seriously wrong and morally depraved. It's also against the law.

    Leaving this thread now while you all "hack" me to pieces and flame me to your hearts content for questioning some of the really biazzare statements and assertions on this thread.
    look, i have been following this thread allalong..i do not recall susy saying she adnher husband willingly had kiddieporn..as ii recall, she said that it occ came through their newsgroup and that it was deleted on a daily basis...
    i do not recall her condoning kiddieporn..her gripe was with the privacy right/big brother issue-thingie-mabob...

    seems people are wanting to hang suzy out for her psots whenthey have not fully read them...
  10. by   Stargazer
    Thank you, Sunny, I was just about to post the same thing. Just because I have not posted 'til now doesn not mean that I haven't been following the thread, in real time, and nowhere did Susy state that she or her hubby knowingly or deliberately downloaded CHILD pornography. To now claim that she edited this out of her posts is inaccurate, misleading, slanderous, and, what's the word?

    Oh, yes. "Bizarre."
  11. by   nurs4kids
    nah, not bizarre..
    just a cowardly way to defend one's wrong.
  12. by   baseline
    She never posted that they wilfully downloaded child pornography. Subjects like this are always going to have heated debate...but this has gotten very nasty. Personal attacks are inappropriate.
  13. by   Vsummer1
    Originally posted by Youda
    Almost got outta here!

    Whoa, Stargazer! Read the entire thread. Suzy has stated quite clearly on this thread that she has a right to her and her husband's child porn. Maybe it was deleted when she edited some of her posts. But, if she meant this in the hypothetical to argue her privacy rights, and that it's OK to have child porn because the law doesn't have the right to look into her computer, then she needs to clarify that. As for "judging" those who condone, use, store, or argue for child porn under the pretext of "privacy", YEP, you can certainly call me judgemental, because I think it's seriously wrong and morally depraved. It's also against the law.

    Leaving this thread now while you all "hack" me to pieces and flame me to your hearts content for questioning some of the really biazzare statements and assertions on this thread.
    Youda, I am sorry, but you need to STEP BACK! I have read this thread and quite frankly, you are missing what she has said. She stated that IF there is any child porn on her computer it was sent in a newsgroup WITHOUT HER KNOWLEDGE.

    Of course I do agree with you that child porn is wrong, just so there is no confusion and you accuse me of condoning it!

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