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Oct 31, 2008 09:03 AM

Support Stickie for New nurses who are not coping

by madwife2002 Staff

I have read through lot of threads recently regarding new nurses who feel they are struggling and not coping with being an new RN. So I thought it would be good to start a support thread where all new nurses could post about their feelings and experiences. You are not alone, all new nurses feel this way and if they dont I would be extreemly concerned.


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Old Nov 06, 2008, 12:57 AM

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What about struggling as an LVN? I'm losing my mind too!
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Old Nov 06, 2008, 05:47 PM

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Thanks so much for starting this thread. I started in IMCU on May 19th and passed my boards on June 30th. I'm working 7p to 7a and 7a to 7p, flipping every other week. I have so many shifts when I just want to not come back! It's an awful feeling, especially since being an RN is all I ever wanted to do. With all the paperwork, I don't think I give my patients nearly the time they need. Does anyone else feel that way and will it get better?
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Old Nov 06, 2008, 06:03 PM

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What a fantastic thread, I'll make sure I pop in every now and then.

Commhospstaff, yes it does get better, I remember as a new nurse being hours late off duty because I couldn't manage to get everything done and the paperwork in the hours I worked. It was only when a senior and very experienced nurse (she was wonderful) took me to one side and pointed out that when I left there was always someone there to take over the care from me, it was OK to hand things over to the next shift when you were having busy days and that I needed to remember that the learning only just begins after you qualify.
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Old Nov 06, 2008, 07:05 PM

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Thanks for this support stickie,

I am a new grad nurse going on 6 months on a med/surg floor and still feel overwhelmed. We have team nursing where we have 10 pts., 5 of them are RN pts and the other 5 go to the LVNs but I am still in charge of all 10. Other nights I only have 5 pts with 2 that are TPCs.

I love nursing, but sometimes I want to quit because it is just too much work. Also, I still am having trouble giving reports to the next shift. What is the best way to give report where a nurse will not look at you and have an attitude regarding hand off reports.
Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks.

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Old Nov 06, 2008, 10:34 PM

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Thanks for starting this thread!! It is so appropriate for me.... I graduated in May, passed boards in June and started working in a high level SICU as a new grad. I have never been so overwhelmed in my life. I am a 2nd career nurse, and did very well in school. I was so far over my head. The other nurses liked me and most were extremely kind and helpful.-they are called the baracudas of the hospital, though...it was just way to much for a new grad with NO nursiing/hospital experience. I couln't eat or sleep...myy husband would almost have to make me go to work. then I'd come home crying. finally I went to my nurse manager - who is incredible and she brought me to her good friend's floor for a 3 month "detail". Kinda help me get more comfortable with basic skills - and then come back to SICU...MMMM I miss it sometimes, but I am in love with my new floor. It fits me like a glove and its so much less stresss than ICU ...I mean it can get busy too, just not all the time crises. Anway, I can't tell you how much this has meant to me and my sanity. I'm not sure I'll ever want to go back to the old floor.
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Old Nov 07, 2008, 02:24 PM

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I too am a new grad, graduated in May, got my license in June, and started work on a cardiac intermediate care unit. I feel so overwhelmed, like I'm always messing something up. It's so hard dealing with the jerk doctors and techs who give you attitude. Giving report is a nightmare to me sometimes, the night shift nurses can make me feel like a complete idiot. I dread going to work, can't sleep the night before my first day back because I dread what kind of patients I will get... and what else I might screw up... I want to just skip this new unexperienced nurse part and fast forward to the experienced nurse part! Don't get me wrong, I love being a nurse, love taking care of patients, but the stress can be so overwhelming! Thank goodness for 4 days off!
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Old Nov 08, 2008, 04:28 AM

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Originally Posted by jstewart3 View Post
Thanks for starting this thread!! It is so appropriate for me.... I graduated in May, passed boards in June and started working in a high level SICU as a new grad. I have never been so overwhelmed in my life. I am a 2nd career nurse, and did very well in school. I was so far over my head. The other nurses liked me and most were extremely kind and helpful.-they are called the baracudas of the hospital, though...it was just way to much for a new grad with NO nursiing/hospital experience. I couln't eat or sleep...myy husband would almost have to make me go to work. then I'd come home crying. finally I went to my nurse manager - who is incredible and she brought me to her good friend's floor for a 3 month "detail". Kinda help me get more comfortable with basic skills - and then come back to SICU...MMMM I miss it sometimes, but I am in love with my new floor. It fits me like a glove and its so much less stresss than ICU ...I mean it can get busy too, just not all the time crises. Anway, I can't tell you how much this has meant to me and my sanity. I'm not sure I'll ever want to go back to the old floor.

I think you have a good manager that seems to be a rare thing these days. I do worry sometimes when students come to my floor and they focus on ICU, ER what they do need is those 6 months on a less acute floor and then move to these specialities. I know a lot of new grads get fed up with hearing ged med/surg experience before you specialise but it is really good advice, and good groundwork for the future. Good luck
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Old Nov 08, 2008, 04:31 AM

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I too am a new grad, graduated in May, got my license in June, and started work on a cardiac intermediate care unit. I feel so overwhelmed, like I'm always messing something up. It's so hard dealing with the jerk doctors and techs who give you attitude. Giving report is a nightmare to me sometimes, the night shift nurses can make me feel like a complete idiot. I dread going to work, can't sleep the night before my first day back because I dread what kind of patients I will get... and what else I might screw up... I want to just skip this new unexperienced nurse part and fast forward to the experienced nurse part! Don't get me wrong, I love being a nurse, love taking care of patients, but the stress can be so overwhelming! Thank goodness for 4 days off!

I promise you things will get better, the 6 month mark is when things fall into place and one day you will sit somewhere and suddenly you realise 'I actually know what I am doing' and a lovely peace will come over you. You are not far away now.
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Old Nov 08, 2008, 08:48 PM

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I sure hope you're right. ... I don't think I can take much more... it just seems like things get worse and not better... I love nursing, but this is not at all what I signed up for! I'm lucky to have some great coworkers who are always there to help me out, without out them I would have quit already!
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