Your Family in the Hospital

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I work in a medium sized hospital and I have worked there for about 15 years. For the most part, most of the staff knows or know of each other. Of course, we tend to see each other outside of the hospital in social settings.

Fortunately, my family has never been in the hospital. However, my husband needs to have surgery...nothing life threatening or major. During the routine procedure overview, it was mentioned he may need either a foley or need to be straight cathed every so often for the first day or 2 due to the pain meds and anesthesia. On the way out, my husband asked if I would be the once doing it. I told him maybe, maybe not. He asked if I really cared if any of my co-workers "got" to see him naked. I answered with the standard nursing comment of seen one, seen 'em all and nurses don't see anything special in seeing just another member. My rather sensitive hubby was a bit hurt by that flippant comment. Personally, I work primarily in the nursery and pediatrics with occasional pulls to the floor, so I am kind of out of touch with a subject like this.

I guess the question is this: how do most nurses feel about co-workers, possibly at least casual friends, potentially doing intimate procedures such as caths, bed-baths, or any other case where they have the opportunity (hubby's word) to see them nude? Thinking about it, I am not sure I would really be that comfortable with it, but as a nurse I know it is no big deal. Just wondering how other nurses might feel about it. Afterall, this isn't just any other patient.

Specializes in LTC.

Quite honestly I'd rather have my co-workers that I trust take care of my boyfriend rather then somebody I wasn't to sure about.

I personally have landed myself in the ER of my hospital several times. One of those times I got a full cardiac work-up which means I got to bare my breast, and quite honestly I didn't care. I knew those taking care of my were professionals and that to them I was just another patient getting an EKG.

Specializes in Telemetry & Obs.

I've been a patient at my own small hospital six times in the past year and I wouldn't have it any other way. Yes, you trade some "privacy", but you get extra special care :)

Two friends from NS were among my nurses, the respiratory therapist I worked with did my ekg, the transporter was somebody I knew well, the tech that put in my foley was somebody I see often, the nurse that received me from pacu is now my manager, my clinical instructor from school spent the night with me after one surgery and even steristriped my incision on my mons pubis :rolleyes:

Nothing I have is sacred :D

If I ever take care of somebody I know I certainly don't gossip about their "equipment" or any part of their care.

Specializes in PACU, ED.

I'm very likely going to have surgery soon and I've chosen my hospital for the procedure. Could a coworker see me naked? Sure. But that is not why I'm going there. I know the surgical team, pacu nurses, and floor nurses and know I'll receive excellent care. If I was worried about being peeked at by friends I'd chose a different hospital where I thought they'd do a good job.

Specializes in SICU, Peds CVICU.

If my husband were admitted the my floor I absolutely 100% would NOT (ever!, did I get my point across enough- lol) want to straight cath him or foley him. Yes I'm a nurse, yes I'm a professional, nope, I'm not gonna do it. Nor would I for my dad, my mom, my grandma, my brother... do you get my point? There's really no reason for you to act as an RN to your loved ones. You said yourself don't work on the floor he's likely to be on, so why would you practice nursing for any of the patients on that floor? You're his wife; not his nurse. And if the thought of a distant coworker seeing your hubby's equipment is that uncomfortable for you then maybe the two of you and his surgeon should discuss alternate hospitals.

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