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I'm a brand new RN on a MedSurg floor. I had a patient last night that had an awful nose bleed around 5am. The doc consulted an ear, nose and throat doc to come in since the bleeding would not stop. The only thing was that I had to take him down to the ER, and that doc would meet us there at a certain time. I guess the doc wanted us down there instead of him coming up to our floor because of the equipment...? I guess that's a common thing.
So I call the ER to let them know what my ENT doc said, and they said that I have to stay with him the whole time since he's my patient...and I can understand that too I guess. Anyways, I had to leave my other 5 patients upstairs with my preceptor, and she would give report to the day shift since all this happened right at shift change. (I don't know who I would have left them with if this happened a week from now when I'm off orientation...I guess the house supervisor since we don't have a separate charge nurse or anything.)
I wheel the man down to the ER about 5 minutes before the doc is supposed to be there, and I'm directed into Room 6 where I try to get him set up as best as I know how. Well...the little O2 "Christmas Tree" thing wouldn't come off of the metal part so that I could hook up his humidified O2...so I go out to one of the two or three nurses at the nurses station and say "I'm sorry...Can you come here for a sec?" Actually...before that, I asked where they kept the water bottles for the humidified O2.
Anyways...somehow it led to them telling me a bunch of orders that the ENT doc had called up there with, part of those orders were to draw up some lidocaine, and gather up a bunch of equipment/supplies/stuff that I had never heard of. (And they didn't tell me any of that until I came out of the room to ask about the O2...but that's sort of irrelevant.)
So when they tell me to get those things, I say "I might need some help with all of that, I'm a new grad and never heard of some of that." After I said that, one of them starts going on about how they're not responsible for him, and that I'm going to have to chart on him...as if they haven't already established that. I wasn't really asking for patient care help, just a point to the right supply room.
(And some of you may be thinking that I wanted someone to hold my hand, but believe me, the last thing I wanted was to ask any of them for help, because I could tell that they weren't pleased with the fact that me and my patient were there in the first place. Heck...I didn't want to be there either, but that was the doctor's arrangement, not ours.)
I don't remember what was said after that but I just go back in the room and try to draw up the lidocaine that I now noticed had been set out on a tray...but there were no needles to draw it up with. So I go out again, and I ask where the needles were. I walk over to the place where they're getting the needles from (so that they won't have to walk all the way back to me...I'm trying to please these people). So I'm trying to make small talk and I comment on how crazy the night was upstairs with the FIRE and all...lol. (Yes...we got 7 transfers at once because something caught on fire on another floor...then there was a crazy guy wandering the halls where the fire started.) Anyways...that nurse starts on how much more horrible her night was with a lady in cardiac arrest, and this guy and that...But she was doing it in a way where she just kept talking about it...Like in a "put me in my place" kind of way.
So I was like..."Yeah I know, it's the ER, I'm sure it was bad."
Luckily, the doc put up with me not being fast at handing him what he asked for, and I found a nurse that I kinda know that helped me find the things I needed.
I just want to know if you all think they were snotty, or did I do something that was rude or aggravating? I mean...is that just our ER, or is that a typical ER? I'd like to work in the ER one day, or ICU, after I get a year or so of MedSurg, but if it's that bad where it makes you that rude to people then I'm not sure. I did a couple of hours in the ER before, but I was just doing IV sticks and the nurses kinda seemed the same way...Just unwelcoming and unfriendly. Not that I expect a big hug or anything, but geez. And I know they're busy, but we are too and our MedSurg nurses aren't that unfriendly.
I understand people don't have time to hold your hand, but everything they said was defensive. They'd squint at me when I'd ask something, then in their response they'd look away with raised eyebrows and kinda shake their heads quickly while talking. You know the look. lol