I'm a student (I haven't started clinicals yet) and I've been thinking about this. I hear people who say they come up with cutesy jokes or lines to throw back at them, and comedy is a great tension breaker and relationship-saver but I also wonder if it undermines the fact that it's at a minimum rude or sometimes probably could be considered abusive in the context of any other relationship (I've heard of objects being thrown?!). For example, I've seen a "Dr. Paddle" on the wall in a unit, hahaha how cute. Not! To me that is sort of akin to an abused wife saying "oh, you know, he doesn't *mean* anything by the things he says..."
I hear it so often, it seems like pretty much all nurses get yelled at by doctors - is this the case? I am not a hothead by any means and I've got thick skin, but I'm not sure how I'll be dealing with the principle of that kind of unprofessionalism and disrespect. I'm just curious to hear your experiences.
PS... also curious to hear if the male nurses get it equally as often as the females (and I know this has to be "no").