Hi All, I quit my first nursing job because I was tired of being yelled at and being made fond of in front of my patients by my preceptors. I was bullied, insulted, and I cried everyday on my way to work. I quit during orientation because I didnt have the energy to take it anymore. I had a total of 10 preceptors.. needless to say stability was a problem here. One night, everything was moving kind of slow and my preceptor had to help another coworker with a colostomy. I asked if I could tag along because I didn't get to experience that in nursing school so I wanted to see how to handle the situation.. my preceptor rolled her eyes and whispered under her breath to the other nurses "I'm so sick of her with all of these ***** * questions". I was floored. I reported the situation to my NM and she said she would take care of it. Nothing!! One of my other preceptors said very rudely one night "I don't have time to babysit". Another time the nurse manager said that I had no right to ask the nursing assistant to change a patient when I wasn't busy. Ha!! I was in the middle of passing meds, trying to calm down a pt with Alzheimers and was urinating in the floor and dealing with an upset family member.. all at once-- on ORIENTATION lol. So, I quit. I gave my notice and was told there was no need to stay the whole 2 weeks because I wasn't gonna affect pt/nurse ratio. Now I get an email saying, I'm on the do not rehire list because I didn't give notice and they would share this with my future employers if I needed them as a reference. How did this happen and how can I get around it? I have NO intentions of going back there but I don't want them to give me a bad name. I didn't do anything wrong (except jumping to the first job that came along). Can they put this information on my background check? This is so unfair. I worked so hard for my license and someone comes along and tried to throw me under the bus. I'm crying as I type this. This one job has definitely spoiled nursing for me.
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Hi All, I quit my first nursing job because I was tired of being yelled at and being made fond of in front of my patients by my preceptors. I was bullied, insulted, and I cried everyday on my way to work. I quit during orientation because I didnt have the energy to take it anymore. I had a total of 10 preceptors.. needless to say stability was a problem here. One night, everything was moving kind of slow and my preceptor had to help another coworker with a colostomy. I asked if I could tag along because I didn't get to experience that in nursing school so I wanted to see how to handle the situation.. my preceptor rolled her eyes and whispered under her breath to the other nurses "I'm so sick of her with all of these ***** * questions". I was floored. I reported the situation to my NM and she said she would take care of it. Nothing!! One of my other preceptors said very rudely one night "I don't have time to babysit". Another time the nurse manager said that I had no right to ask the nursing assistant to change a patient when I wasn't busy. Ha!! I was in the middle of passing meds, trying to calm down a pt with Alzheimers and was urinating in the floor and dealing with an upset family member.. all at once-- on ORIENTATION lol. So, I quit. I gave my notice and was told there was no need to stay the whole 2 weeks because I wasn't gonna affect pt/nurse ratio. Now I get an email saying, I'm on the do not rehire list because I didn't give notice and they would share this with my future employers if I needed them as a reference. How did this happen and how can I get around it? I have NO intentions of going back there but I don't want them to give me a bad name. I didn't do anything wrong (except jumping to the first job that came along). Can they put this information on my background check? This is so unfair. I worked so hard for my license and someone comes along and tried to throw me under the bus. I'm crying as I type this. This one job has definitely spoiled nursing for me.