A male patient, usually continent of urine and stool. Left side weakness, can use the commode with a transfer assist.
In hospital for testing and some confusion- requests repeatedly for assistance to the bedside commode for a BM. Nurse puts brief on him and tells him to "just go in your diaper"
Continues to use call bell every 1/2 hour or so, very politely explaining that he does not want to go in the diaper and could someone please assist to commode. Is repeatedly told to go in the diaper.
Wife explains that although he is a bit confused he feels demeaned having to lie in his own stool-still no assistance.
A male patient, usually continent of urine and stool. Left side weakness, can use the commode with a transfer assist.
In hospital for testing and some confusion- requests repeatedly for assistance to the bedside commode for a BM. Nurse puts brief on him and tells him to "just go in your diaper"
Continues to use call bell every 1/2 hour or so, very politely explaining that he does not want to go in the diaper and could someone please assist to commode. Is repeatedly told to go in the diaper.
Wife explains that although he is a bit confused he feels demeaned having to lie in his own stool-still no assistance.
let's face it: there are just some nurses who shouldn't be nurses, as they have no concept of how to treat anyone with dignity, respect or even therapeutically promote independence!!!!! nursing like this just kills me, it really does. grrrrrrrrrr......:angryfire
You know what? As I was reading thru all the posts, I had decided I was going to respond with "this is someone's husband/father/grandfather and would any decent person want their own loved one treated this way?"
Then when I read you are speaking of your dad, I was shocked. How awful for you
Please.......if your mom feels unable to confront this situation, you MUST advocate for your dad (and your mom too). It's completely unacceptable
Oh yes...I am on my way there tomorrow. I am VERY protective of my dad-I just can't wrap my head around the fact that this is actually happening! I will keep everyone posted.
A Nurse puts brief on him and tells him to "just go in your diaper"
Continues to use call bell every 1/2 hour or so, very politely explaining that he does not want to go in the diaper and could someone please assist to commode. Is repeatedly told to go in the diaper.
:angryfire :angryfire Not only is that ethically wrong, it is patient abuse and neglect. That is morally demeanibg to the patient. That nurse needs FIRED and reported to the state board!!!
omg.....i tried to be good an pass this one up without replying...but i cant!!!!!!
i have a phrase i tell to my new grads and all nurses that are in need of this bit of info....so ya can quote me......hunt that nurse down and tell him/her that::::::
rn does not stand for rather not......it stands for registered nurse!!!!!!!!
rn does not not not stand for rather not..........rn does not stand for rather not!!!!!!!!! where were the other staff members during this? if your coworker jumps off a ******* cliff do you do it too?omg!!!!!!! did someone help this poor soul????omg!!!!
Pipsqueak, ADN
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Actually this is considered abuse. Maybe a few inservices would be in order in case it was forgotten where the line of abuse/neglect is.