Shift work - why???
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Sorry - a bit of a rant. Thanks in advance for listening - if anyone has creative ways they've worked through this - or just advice for dealing with this for years, feel free to share :)
I started working in my unit (acute rehab) last July as a new grad - knowing that I would be working alternating day/evening shifts. Fine - I understand that's the need, husband was a stay-at-home dad, there for the kids, etc.
A year and a bit into this - I wonder why??? Different shifts work for different people, yet the only 'straight' shifts that my hospital hires for are night shifts and that's not too often. Most of the positions are day / evening, or day / night.
How can I have a life like this? I can't take a community class; I can't be involved in PTA; I don't feel as though I can do anything except keep all days and all evenings free because I have no set schedule - and will not have one.
I know, I can move to home health (no full time positions, not even close to full time); wait, how about public health? Sounds great - no nights, weekends, holidays... oh, did I mention the $6-9/hour pay cut??? With one income, school loans, and household stuff, that's not quite feasible. Clinic work? I've seen one position for an oncology nurse - but that was PT again.
Oh yeah - my husband can get a job - then kids in daycare, he has to have a day shift that fits around my schedule - no holidays or opposite of mine - and he wants to work at the hospital too - so it goes back to the no set shift/schedule problem. Did I mention he wants to go back to school, too?? And that we have one car, and I work 45 minutes from home? Public health hires in town, but not often, and not always for FT hours... and then there's that huge pay cut... at least we can afford our home :)
How about going back to school? Great - I want to get my NP - one class at a time, closest school is 2 1/2 hours away from home - but I can only do part time (again, I have to work FT to pay the bills) so it's still a few more years of crazy shift work.
I just hope my son (now 9) doesn't suddenly decide to sign up for a sport or after school activity - he wants to swim, not offered in elementary yet, so I'm safe for a bit... and baby is 1 1/2, so we have time there, no dance lessons, sorry!
How do they expect us to be at their whim and call AND have a family AND have a life AND stay happy employees AND wait 10-15 years to get a set schedule???
Thanks for listening :)
Stressed out nurse/mom in Minnesota