Serious mental illness affects us all in some way. What can we do, as professional nurses to help make a difference in our families, in our work place, in our community and in our nation?
Ed called me to ask if we could have coffee and talk. As his long-term friend and a Faith Community Nurse, I was happy to oblige and we set up a time. When we got together he told me the difficult story of his brother whose wife has serious mental health issues. This was the fifth time she had made a serious attempt to kill him-each time the process escalated and her attempts were more serious. Near tears, Ed went on to tell me the sad story of how he was unable to help his brother despite his best attempts. His brother would go through the complicated steps necessary to get her committed, she would stay in a facility for a total of maybe two weeks, be released, have nowhere to go, plead to come home and the process would begin again-he ever hopeful that "this time would be different" and she appearing to adjust her paranoid, schizophrenic ideation/bipolar behavior for short bursts of time before falling back into the physical, emotional and spiritual abuse. Additionally, Ed's brother found himself unable to prosecute her criminally, simply lacking the emotional strength to send her to jail.
The cyclical nature of the pattern left everyone exhausted and also mentally distressed-the wife who lives in the grip of severe mental illness, the husband who is a victim and displays all the classic signs of victimization, their teenage daughter who simply wants her mother to "go away," and the extended family who vacillates between despair and hope with every cycle of violence and reconciliation.
What are the statistics on the prevalence of serious mental health problems? Of course, it is hard to know exactly as 1 in 5 of us has some type of mental health crisis at some point in our lives. But the more serious, destructive types of mental health illnesses are smaller in number:
However, these serious mental health problems have a disproportionately large effect on those around them. Mary Nicholas, MSW, Professor of Social Work at Mississippi
College states, "Mental illness destabilizes the workforce, the family, society in general, the educational system, even churches." The societal impact that one person with severe untreated mental illness can have is difficult to quantitate.
Ed went on to express his frustration with the emergency room as the access point for mental health evaluation and crisis. He detailed occasions where his sister-in-law was evaluated and sent home for unknown reasons. As professional nurses, we all know how hard it is to find a placement for someone in crisis. The options are few and often the chronically mentally ill have run through their money, run out of support systems, and have very few options. Additionally, the family system is so ill that their own issues become part of the problem.
Nicholas says, "I see a lack of funding. I don't think it's a lack of interest but I think we need to educate our people in authority regarding what mental health issues are and the devastation they can cause in our society when these diseases go untreated."
She goes on to point out some possible avenues forward:
I listened carefully to Ed as he unburdened himself of more details of his family's terrible ordeal. He said, "Being mentally ill does not mean you are not smart. In this case and others like it, the person in question knows her rights. She knows how to use them to defend herself and in some ways, to perpetuate the problem. She is functional-just in very harmful, hurtful ways."
The National Association for the Mentally Ill (NAMI) helps to advocate for both the mentally ill and for their families. They provide support groups and connection to other resources and work with the mentally ill, their families members and professionals. I referred my friend to NAMI and he was able to attend group and get more connected.
What is your experience with the seriously mentally ill in the community? What do you see that is helpful? How can professional nurses move beyond identifying problems and become part of addressing solutions long term? What is going on in your community that is successful?
Joy Eastridge, BSN, RN, CLMFCN
Great post! I have a family member with mental illness and I have seen things that you question in the world like are human beings more important than profit? I was watching the National Geographic Channel one day and could not believe that there was an experiment that was funded billions of dollars to collect data to test dolphins to see if we can communicate to aliens one day (seriously). Again I ask the world what is more important humans or profit? All this technology and numerous resources available yet it's not used for the greater good.
Great post! I have a family member with mental illness and I have seen things that you question in the world like are human beings more important than profit? I was watching the National Geographic Channel one day and could not believe that there was an experiment that was funded billions of dollars to collect data to test dolphins to see if we can communicate to aliens one day (seriously). Again I ask the world what is more important humans or profit? All this technology and numerous resources available yet it's not used for the greater good.
I appreciate your comment and your perspective. Sometimes we do seem to get our priorities a little askew, don't we? It continues to be important that we vote, speak with our elected officials and keep mental health issues at the forefront. Joy
I had an experience just today that annoyed me. Everything turned out all right, but It just as easily could not have.
Someone went to the administration at my son's school concerned that he said he as going to harm himself. They rightly were concerned, called me and I went and got him. I called his doctors. Their only advice was to take him to one of the two really crappy, scary mental health facilities where I cringed reading the reviews.
We went to the crisis center for the county in which I live. It is associated with the health department. They had several staff members (LCSW) available to asses him and they decided that he was NOT a danger to himself and he did not need hospitalization. Thank God!
It is scary to know there is no where safe to take my child if I couldn't handle it.
Support and fully fund assertive community treatment. Become educated about what is already being done to support the chronically mentally ill in the community and don't doom and gloom.
Longer inpatient is not the answer. Better outpatient is. We only need inpatient when outpatient fails.
Long acting antispychotic injections and incentive programs to gain adherence.
And please stop over telling stories about violent mentally ill people. That situation is rare. Much more often, the danger is to themselves. I work with psychotic people daily. I don't know any who have a history of attempting to kill their spouse multiple times. That's just not how it typically goes.
jeastridge, BSN, RN
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Thank you for sharing. There are no easy answers, are there? I hope that your post and others like it can help us all as we search for creative ways to move forward. Joy