Second-degree programs - don't think I'll ever get in

Please don't give up. If you believe it you will see it~Wayne Dwyer

There are definitely people who get into ABSN programs with lower GPAs, so I don't think your early university struggles are as much of an issue as you might think. I think my undergrad GPA was only a 3.3 but I did a lot better in all of my pre-reqs that I took more recently (3.8 to 4.0 for those classes). The program that I applied to looked more at my recent work than my first bachelor's GPA.

Also, I had a friend/classmate during pre-reqs who was working toward her first bachelor's degree and was really struggling with her pre-reqs. She had to drop anatomy the first time she took it and I think she ended up with a B when she took it the second time. She had to drop physiology too. In the end, she opted to switch schools. There were other schools in the areas that were slightly less rigorous and with significantly more supportive staff that are still good schools that will lead to an RN after her name. She'll be starting a year later than she originally planned, but she got her acceptance letter for their nursing school just a couple weeks ago.

Something that I wish I had considered when I was applying for ABSN programs was applying to traditional BSN programs. Yes, it would take me 24 or 28 months instead of just 12, but there are some advantages to the slightly slower pace. It might be worth a look at some traditional programs in your area too because for some of them, a class like micro may be considered a co-requisite instead of a pre-requisite (not that it makes the frustration of potentially repeating micro any better). Also, your application to the traditional program at the same school may be viewed differently.

Whether you choose to apply to traditional programs or accelerated programs in the future, you have the opportunity to have an even stronger application if you get some experience that shows how serious you are about your decision. (I don't think it's necessary to seek out these opportunites to be competitive for a seat in the future, but it certainly can't hurt!) You can get some more hospital volunteer hours or possibly even get some training to find a job in healthcare (though even some of those entry level positions like CNA or PCT are, in some areas, harder to find than one might initially expect, so consider carefully before speneding too much money on training).

Have you already spoken to the advisor for your first choice program? If not, I think it's worth seeing if you can find out what would make you a more competitive applicant for their program(s). Just be careful to bring the right professional attitude to this fact finding mission so that you don't end up crying/tearing-up from frustration/fears when you're discussing the situation. (That tearing up when frustrated is something I might do in your situation, so I would have to practice being all-business while asking the questions.)

My entry into an ABSN program was delayed by a year. I am totally jealous of my friend that I had planned to start with. We both ended up choosing to move to different states instead of attending the school where we did our pre-reqs. She was able to start at the same time we had planned and because my new first choice school requires applications to be submitted more than a year in advance of the term in which you want to start, I was delayed by a year. As I was getting started, my friend was graduating. At the time I found out there was going to be a delay I was devastated. Unlike my younger classmates, I didn't have much time left in my 30s and it seemed like a major set-back. Now I perceive the delay more like a bump in the road instead of the huge roadblock it seemed at the time. Sure, I wish things had happened on my timeline (particularly since it was a little more expensive the way that things happened), but I'm still going to be an RN, and that's what matters.

Best of luck with your future applications!!

If an RN is still what you really want to do, keep going. It's just going to take longer. Retake any prereqs that you got a C in. Retake phys and micro with labs at a community college. Look for programs that will take the second higher grade. Second career BSNs may not be the right niche, look for traditional programs, ASN programs, or consider doing an LVN at a community college and looking for a bridge program. If you're employed as an LVN, or even CNA, often your employer will even help pay for the bridge program.

Find a volunteer program. In my area, experience with direct patient care counts almost as much as good grades.

My GPA from my first degree was 3.23. But my prereqs were strong and I had over 500 hours of volunteer time. It took me 3 years to finish my prereqs and get in and I have children, and a job too. I did it, you can too.

You may be smart but you haven't been practical in applying to nursing school. If you decide to continue to try to pursue this goal you need to:

* Realize you might not be able to afford to go to school right now. If you have $80,000 in student loans you're unlikely to be eligible for more federal financial aid since you have a bachelors and are trying to get another. Federal aid used to be easy to get and the government was more quick to forgive loans, not the case anymore. Your best (and maybe only) options are to save money and apply for private scholarships.

* Call the program(s) you're interested in and have your transcripts evaluated. They will be straight up in telling you if you have a chance and what you can do to improve your odds. You're competing against the other applicants to get in, not just trying to meet the minimum requirements. If you had taken a few minutes to call the accelerated nursing program you were applying to they likely would have told you what you needed to be accepted. They don't want you to waste your time or their time applying if you aren't a strong enough candidate.

* Most colleges have articulation agreements with other local schools and they develop course equivalency tables that show which classes do and don't transfer and meet prereq requirements. Every school I've seen posts this on their website. You probably didn't do your research since you took science classes without the lab the accelerate program requires. Make sure you have written proof that the classes you are taking are eligible.

* Consider getting a CNA. It's relatively quick and you may make similar money to waitressing, while getting valuable experience. Some employers will help pay for you to continue on to get an RN. If you're a good employee they may offer you an RN job once you pass the NCLEX.

Don't pursue nursing unless it's a job that you REALLY want. Nursing schools are quick to use Bureau of Labor Statistics numbers showing there is a nursing shortage, but they're just trying to keep their enrollments. There's no reason you can't be a qualified applicant and a good nurse someday. But it's not going to happen unless you do your research and be realistic.

It sounds like you have some serious decisions to make. $80,000 is a lot of money to owe the government and ABSN programs are incredibly expensive. You are most definitely not guaranteed a job after graduation, so I'm not sure piling on debt is a great idea.

Where are you considering going for an LPN program that costs 18 thousand dollars? That's insane and over double what my ADN costs.

My suggestion would be to go the LPN-BSN route or ADN-BSN route. You're going to have to pay for it out of pocket, but there are scholarships out there that can help. If you get a job somewhere with tuition reimbursement, that can also e'll significantly. What you want to look for is programs that ONLY take Into consideration your pre-req gpa, and focus on taking the right classes for that. With grade replacement, you can throw away the past and be in control of your grades from now on.

I think you just need to be realistic. You don't have the money or GPA to go the route you've been trying to go. You're not really going to be able to get your overall GPA up with the amount of credit hours you have, so it's time to do what you CAN do. I don't have a stellar GPA in my first degree, and ABSN programs around here are fiercely competitive, so I made sure I had a 4.0 on prereqs and went from there. I

Holy Cow! I don't know how I missed that $80,000 in debt line when I read the original post earlier. I have to agree with Stephalump that a more affordable LPN-BSN or ADN-BSN route (where you either save up or pay as you go for the first degree) may be your best option unless you have the financial support of a spouse/family who are going to pay for the ABSN program (and living expenses). I can remember when the recommendation for maximum loan amount used to be two-times your anticipated starting salary, but that has since been decreased to only one-times your anticipated starting salary. $80,000 is already well past the starting salary of any new grad RN positions that I've ever heard about or seen.

Wow, my heart truly goes out to you! I can sense the utter desperation and frustration in your post. Take a deep breath and tackle it one thing at a time. When you step back and you look at this huge problem, it seems unsurmountable. But you can handle it in smaller chunks.

I agree with everything CDEWannabe and Steph wrote.

First, identify ABSN, BSN, AND ADN programs you can apply to. Forget about the missing labs for right now. Just find the schools that you can attend in your area.

Second, call them or go in person to schedule some time to meet with a nursing advisor. Have them review your transcripts and ask what you can do about this missing labs. Maybe there is a lab only portion you can take? Worst case scenario, you need to retake micro and physiology. Don't do it at a university. Just go to a community college where it will be more affordable. Many community colleges offer fee waivers for tuition for students that qualify. Try to get qualified so you don't have to pay for those classes again.

I know the cost of applications is a concern but figure out what you can afford. Maybe it's 2 or 3 schools? Go for 2 or 3 then. The ADN programs in my area do not charge an application fee. The one that did was only $5. So you might find that you can apply to many ADNs if they don't charge anything.

I get that you want an ABSN but it might just not be realistic. Forget about the academics for a moment. You have tons of student debt and it'll get worst with an ABSN. An ADN is more affordable, can be easier to get into because they have more relaxed admission policies, and you still get to walk away with a degree that lets you sit for the NCLEX. You can then apply for an RN to BSN bridge program.

So don't throw in the towel just yet. There are options out there. They might not be your plan A or even the shortest route. But you can still be a nurse!

I know it can be discouraging and overwhelming at times, but you can achieve it. Just think of how much you have accomplished, how much you've grown as a person, the maturity you have now.

I won't talk about your money issues, job issues, etc. Only you can make the decisions that are best for you. But I do want to address getting into a program.

I sailed through high school, had a full ride to a state school, blew it all my first year due to my newfound independence. That 1.7 gpa my freshman year should have been a wake-up call. I did go on to get a degree in journalism and I truly loved it and excelled, but I graduated with a lowly 2.7 gpa cumulative.

Thirteen years later, here I am, getting ready to start my accelerated BSN program in fall. I did two years of pre-reqs at night and on weekends while working at a full time job, and I got a 4.0 across the board. I knew that I had to in order to truly redeem myself. No excuses. My gpa is now a 3.0. It took me out of the running for many programs, but not all. I rocked my essay, I made my personal statement sing, and I flat out told them why I am going to be an excellent part of their fall cohort. And I got in. It was the only school I applied to, in fact. It was my top choice. I have no medical experience.

I realize this is my story and my path, and not anyone else's. But it demonstrates that it can be done. You will do it.

YOU WILL DO IT somehow if you want it bad enough. Don't let fear and what if's hold you back.

Go to Inter American University of Puerto Rico. You can get your ADN or AAS in Nursing in 11 months, and it's not that expensive aside from relocating. You're eligible to take the NCLEX when you finish. It's quick and dirty, but gets the job done.