Hi everyone,
I'm in my first semester of nursing and I had a bad experience yesterday at my clinical. After clinical, the 2 instructors asked me to stay back. After everyone left, we were sitting at the table in the private staff room. They told me that they were "concerned" because they said they were seeing signs of stress and said that it seemed that it was affecting my ability to concentrate. I responded with "yes, I am stressed-I'm in nursing school, and everyone else in my class is expressing that they are stressed too".
The instructor gave stupid examples of my "signs of stress" such saying that I appear "nervous" all the time, my hands shake, it's affecting the other students and my patients". I do not agree with this at all. First of all, I feel that I have done very well in communicating with my patients and they seem to respond positively to my care. As far as the "other students" go, I am not seeing how I could be affecting them. I dont really say anything to them. My average on my tests are a"B". The instructor said that b/c I forgot the combination to a door, and that I wasn't sure how to place a bedpan under a 80 lb. geriatric patient that I am showing signs of not processing information. I felt that I was being interrogated and harrassed. They asked me if I was seeing a counselor, and even though I was crying they just stared at me blankly, did not offer me a tissue and when I was leaving and still crying all they said was "have a good weekend". Can instructors do this? I only have 4 more weeks to go in this semester and I just want to get through this semester. Also, I've noticed that these instructors seem to have "their favorites". What advice does anyone have for me to get through these last 4 clinicals? I realize that I will probably have to transfer to another school but I could really use some insight on this.