Published Jan 13, 2020
AB1989
1 Post
Hi! I’m currently 3 prerequisites away from applying to nursing school. I already have a degree in finance but I’m not enjoying the work at all. I have a question about the realistic expectations of a nursing schedule. My wife is going to start her teaching career in the fall so she will be working Monday - Friday during the day. I keep seeing things mentioning how it’s difficult to get day shift nursing jobs. I’m considering figuring out another career option (even though I’m really excited about nursing) because I don’t want to be working nights and weekends all the time. It’ll ruin my relationship. Plus, we want to have a baby. Can anyone let me know what to expect if I keep following this path?
Wuzzie
5,221 Posts
1 minute ago, AB1989 said:I’m considering figuring out another career option (even though I’m really excited about nursing) because I don’t want to be working nights and weekends all the time. It’ll ruin my relationship. Plus, we want to have a baby. Can anyone let me know what to expect if I keep following this path?
I’m considering figuring out another career option (even though I’m really excited about nursing) because I don’t want to be working nights and weekends all the time. It’ll ruin my relationship. Plus, we want to have a baby. Can anyone let me know what to expect if I keep following this path?
Expect to work weekends and night shifts and holidays. It's the nature of the beast.
caliotter3
38,333 Posts
Especially in the beginning. There is a pecking order to get day shift and in some cases, as described in another recent thread, that pecking order does not necessarily align with seniority at the organization.
14 minutes ago, Wuzzie said:Expect to work weekends and night shifts and holidays. It's the nature of the beast.
verene, MSN
1,790 Posts
While it is true that many new grads in acute care will start out on nights - this is not always the case. If days is your priority then it *is* possible to get a day shift position - it just may be in a less competitive specialty or outside the hospital (e.g. clinic / ambulatory center etc). If working in the hospital it *will* be normal to pick up weekends (every other, or every 3rd is not unusual) but again - if working in a clinic or non-hospital setting there may not be any weekends to work.
While not working the same schedule as your wife can seem difficult - there are also opportunities to this as well - a coworker works exclusively e/o weekend because he wife works during the week - this lets him be a stay-at-home dad to their young son during the week and bring in a little extra money for the family by picking up a couple of weekends a month.
windsurfer8, BSN, RN
1,368 Posts
Expect nights and weekends. Plan accordingly.
Mergirlc, MSN, APRN, NP
730 Posts
If you just look up New Grad RN jobs on a major hospital website that offers New Grad jobs, you'll probably see the majority of the jobs offered will be for nightshift. They will advertise them as 7am - 7pm and 7pm - 7am to get you to look....but then WHAM! You read the actual entry and it's usually for nights. I have seen, however, some will have rotating day and night shifts so that might be an option. I don't see these a lot, but in the end....you'll still be working nights more than likely to start off with.
Golden_RN, MSN
573 Posts
Even if you were lucky enough to get a day shift position, you'd still be working weekends and holidays. It's a 24 hour business.
And on those 12 hour shifts, factor in commute time, coming early/staying late (this is the norm for many), you really don't see your family on those days.
As for having children, 12 hour shift job was pretty good for me because even though I didn't see my kid on the days I worked, on those 4 days off I was able to devote the whole day to them/school activities/etc.
9-5 jobs do exist, but you won't qualify for those until you get bedside experience, and many of those require BSN.