Davey Do

Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years)

Overcome fear by seeing the funny yet ridiculous side of every situation.- Edgar Cayce

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  1. At Wrongway Regional Medical Center, where I had worked for 17 years, I was the first nurse there to receive the DAISY Award in February 2020. One moth later, in March 2020, I was terminated over...
  2. Or, another case in reality on the flip side of the coin: Were you informed in a letter to "be courteous of the instructors" only to have one instructor blatantly use profanity, and then proceed to...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    This is an example of an Us & Them mentality: "We are right and they are wrong. We are good and they are bad." The problem with an Us & Them mentality is that is an end road- We close the...
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    6 Tips for Success for New Nurse Graduates

    Sometimes- most times- the simplest truths are the best, as in your article, dareese. Viewing from the other end of the spectrum, having retired from a 36 year nursing gig, I can say that I would...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    You've got it, NurseBlaq: The "hurt the other people approach" is a type of tough love. The other must experience discomfort, and embrace that discomfort, if they ever want to experience a higher...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    With all due respect, sevensonnets, there is always a reason behind all behaviors. Truism: People will use whatever tact they have learned that works best- for them- in order to get what they...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    Am I missing something? Or are you talking about
  8. First and foremost, Midlife, please allow me to offer my condolences for your loss. I'm sure that just the fact that you're plowing ahead despite this major life crisis, your husband would be proud of...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

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    Dear Florence...

    An interesting article from a really neat perspective of a personal letter, SCB RN! Your article inspired me to do a little more research on Ms. Nightingale and, generally speaking, she was what...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    In the dynamics of newbies taking COBs to task, the drama is usually a predictably systematic process. It's all about power. I, too, enjoyed the power plays, until they became personal...
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    What’s a Crusty Old Bat?

    The slang term bat has a tendency to be gender specific: "If someone refers to an old person, especially an old woman, as an old bat, they think that person is silly, annoying, or unpleasant"....
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    BSN - no experience and lots of children

    I started a thread on this forum titled Nursing and Children. I wanted to discuss and learn the thoughts and feelings behind those who made choices to pursue such an energy draining field and also to...
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    BSN - no experience and lots of children

    I am 64 years old, retired, have no health apparent problems, own my home in the country, have no bills, am financially comfortable, pursuing my art & other interests, and living the life I that...
  15. "Unnecessary" in the sense that these situations take place and are not universally desired for therapeutic outcomes. However, we know that some need drama in their lives, some reasons being, for...
  16. Once again, I say: As with any situation which have variables, realizing certain constants, or truths, can be applied to those variables and the product can be a known number. The methods...
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    Hate My Job But Feel There Is No Way Out

    Yours is an elephant which needs to be eaten one bite at a time, Aliceozwalker, so I took the first bite here. Anxiety will not be decreased by pursuing a physically and mentally unhealthy...
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    BSN - no experience and lots of children

    I learned from an early age that bearing and raising offspring would stand in the way of what I really wanted to do, which was: I want to do whatever I want to do. So, in 1986, at the age of 29...
  19. I truly enjoy our discourses,
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    Burnout - How long do I have?

    A profound statement indeed, Ms Brandy. The illuminating revelation that there is a systematic approach to understanding the etiology of emotional responses is not universal. To further your...
  21. Au contraire mon frère! The statement is an opinion and not a fact. The opinion has a debatable premise for which others and I have pointed out that seasoned employees often believe they are...
  22. As children, we expected our primary caregivers, usually our parents, to provide for us and guide us. We expected to be reinforced as a result of positive behavior and chastised for negative...