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  1. Been there,done that

    Help me decide please!

    If you don't want to do med surg, don't take the obs job. You never know when the transfer could happen. The internship in mother baby would completely depend on how the manager would feel about you...
  2. No, I never wondered why there is so little sympathy for striking nurses. Nursing is a business and I respect them for going for as much money as they can get. Appears that YOU feel nurses should only...
  3. Been there,done that

    Difficult coworker..how to deal?

    She has already been reported for what I feel.. is insubordination. You have another RN that supports your stance on this problem. It is up to your management to continue corrective action. Give...
  4. Been there,done that

    Nurses Week at the VA

    It has been YEARS ..in many facilities, since I even got an email acknowledging the nurse's role in health care. We are no longer recognized.. because the corporate masters.. have us by the short...
  5. Been there,done that

    Initial Drug Test

    " I'll retest myself when I can afford it and once I get a few negatives " Far from resolved. OP has not taken responsibility and is throwing out bull
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    Initial Drug Test

    Oh yeah, it was a mistake. YOURS. You picked up someone's vape and just decided to take a hit off it? My son vapes, regular nicotine. I would not take a toke from HIS pen. Germs and all that stuff....
  7. Been there,done that

    Regarding permanent placement

    Your orientation now depends on your contract with the agency AND the facility. Both will most likely push you to be up and running ASAP. You don't need an agency to find you a permanent placement...
  8. Been there,done that

    Dating Coworkers

    You can date anyone you choose to. However it turns out is no one's business. Just keep it on a professional level while you two are at work. Best of luck, go for
  9. Been there,done that

    Help! Scared. Is this really happening?!

    What will orientation consist
  10. Been there,done that

    minimum staffing and lunch breaks - enemies??

    There is NO combating this. Administration KNOWS any break time will lead to unsafe staffing levels. Administration will now make the staff accountable for NOT taking their LEGAL break time. To the...
  11. Been there,done that

    Help! Scared. Is this really happening?!

    She is NOT overtrusting you. She is using you. Do NOT accept the
  12. Been there,done that

    Facebook and employers/school

    You think you have seen judgemental people on THIS site? Wait until you meet the REAL judge AND jury ..future employers, the BON and
  13. Been there,done that

    Facebook and employers/school

    Go right ahead. Have FB and Instragram accounts. Anything you post can and MAY be held against you. Nurses are held to a ridiculously high standard. Best to keep any personal information private....
  14. Been there,done that

    Possible to break Rn Residency contract

    AN cannot assist you. You need a lawyer to review the
  15. Been there,done that

    Disrespectful patients

    There are no specific words to say in this situation. It depends on the nurse-patient relationship you had so far developed. You are correct that it comes with time. I found that sitting down,...
  16. Been there,done that

    Disrespectful patients

    "Have a clever response that puts him in his place ". Nurses do not put patient's in their place. This patient sounds pretty sick, and is sick of being sick. I would have not taken his response...
  17. Been there,done that

    $600 an hr to fill a shift?

    Providers MAKE money for the man, nursing is viewed as COSTING money for the man. Corporate health care.. at it's
  18. Been there,done that

    Burned Bridges

    Your issue with authority has nothing to do with playing a game or integrity. We ALL serve somebody. Your managers have a job to do. I have had MANY positions where I did not see eye to eye with...
  19. Been there,done that

    Do you feel safe reporting errors?

    I have worked in many facilities over the years. I have HEARD that self reporting SHOULD be blameless and is designed to identify the root cause of the error. Unless the error caused harm to the...
  20. Been there,done that

    New nurse, home health, stressed/depressed

    Home health should NOT require 24/7 accountability. You are working for a chincy agency. Continue your search, you will soon have one year experience with chinchy agency. That should open some doors...
  21. Been there,done that

    New Grad afraid to start working!

    "I have suddenly lost confidence in myself as a nurse." You haven't been a nurse yet. You've been a student. The transition can be scary if you focus on it. I am encouraging to get on the "horse" and...
  22. Been there,done that

    Quick advice on multiple unit offers!

    MICU is far from laid back.You need to learn your basic skllls before you apply them in the critical setting. Bariatric patients will quickly become routine.. and suck the life out of you. The...
  23. Been there,done that

    New Nurse; To start a New IV or not?

    I was taught that any time the patient complains of pain, a new site must be obtained. What was the charge nurses's rationale for a new
  24. Been there,done that

    Being a Hostage to Your Bladder

    Cute article. However, once you reach my age letting go is NOT the problem...holding it
  25. Been there,done that

    Starting over age 40

    Take one step at a time. Entry to a nursing program can be difficult. Have you consulted a school counselor? You've raised 3 kids, you can do anything. Good