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  1. Been there,done that

    Dog had emergency surgery last night.

    You were not a nurse during this time.. you were a panicked pet owner. After all, we take care of humans, not animals. The animal can't tell us what is wrong. I have been there, done that. Kid and...
  2. Been there,done that

    job interview

    Thinking you are not in the USA. But here, prisons need us .. more than we need them. Know the job description . You will most likely be passing meds and performing emergency triage. Need to know...
  3. Been there,done that

    What is with this angry nurse?

    The oncoming nurse is very rigid. S/he can only deal when information is presented in the format they are used to. Must wonder how s/he deals with a change in patient condition. This where you give...
  4. Professionals do not coo and hold hands in the breakroom, or move the relationship to a private area. Professionals keep their private life and work life separate. I met a DH at work ( during a...
  5. Been there,done that

    Raised my voice to dementia patient

    You have come under management's radar. What is the cellphone policy? Use of a PED can be grounds for dismissal. I understand you are walking on eggshells now. IF the nurse reports you for raising...
  6. Comes across to me as a little shy, and afraid of
  7. Go for it. She may turn you down for coffee in the cafe, because she doesn't have time for a break. Just ask her if she would like to get together sometime. Who CARES if other hospital personnel see...
  8. Been there,done that

    Request not to be placed at certain clinical site

    The employment setting is different from the school setting. The hospital does not care that you are returning as a student, and neither should you. I would never in my wildest dreams ask to not...
  9. Been there,done that

    New Grad SE Michigan

    Can't help you with the starting pay, I'm sure Google can. All but 2 of your listed choices would be a good place to start. The area market is pretty tight for new grads... did you network during...
  10. Been there,done that

    How do you decide what unit is the right unit?

    Ask to job shadow on the units. This will give you a feel for the pace, personalities, and patient type. Good luck, let us know what you
  11. Been there,done that

    First admit and First death all in one shift

    A peaceful death is not a bad
  12. Been there,done that

    Pre-employment drug testing; urine vs hair

    Let me Google that for you. "A standard screen with GC/MS confirmation requires 40+ milligrams of hair or approximately 50 - 70 strands that are up to 3.9cm (or 1.5 inches) in length." Even an old...
  13. Been there,done that

    I just had surgery and now I don't think I have what it takes

    " How can I be a decent nurse if I don't have core unshakability?' Nobody has core unshakability. You have had the opportunity to observe from the other side of the bed. It's not depressing, it's a...
  14. Been there,done that

    My dream of becoming a nurse has became a nightmare

    A BMT unit is a difficult start for a new grad. You should expect a 3 month thorough orientation on the day shift... with specific achievement goals outlined.. and addressed on a weekly basis....
  15. Been there,done that

    How do I quit my job the RIGHT way?

    That is NOT cold , that is the professional way to handle the situation. If you are not accepting per diem shifts, do not accept their calls and do not have any qualms about doing so. I was expected...
  16. Been there,done that

    Falsely accused of med diversion

    Unless you have work as a traveler, you cannot understand the situation. Travelers are under the Hubbard telescope. If the manager dismissed the first issue , it was TRULY trivial. This manager did...
  17. Been there,done that

    Falsely accused of med diversion

    I don't understand . You pulled the med, another nurse gave it. Only one dose was removed from the Pyxis, the patient received one dose. Where is the
  18. Been there,done that

    New Grad Interview

    Recruiters can have hundreds of applicants to follow up on. I think you are on the right track emailing every 10 days. Can you contact the manager you interviewed
  19. Been there,done that

    Comments to make on an Unjust write up?

    Save your breath. Just refused to sign it and watch the panties get bunched. In the meantime, how many applications have you filled
  20. Been there,done that

    Nurses with Contracts

    Certainly have a lawyer review your contract. Paying 12K is not the biggest issue here. " Also the position is with a hospital that kind of part owns my current hospital". What does that mean? It...
  21. Been there,done that

    How old is too old to become a new RN?

    Holy cow! What's your
  22. Been there,done that

    Really bad fever blister. Should I call in?

    What is your unit's policy? L&D may not want you to come
  23. Been there,done that

    New Job

    It is a group interview. Know the job description in depth and and take a copy of it , and your nursing license with you. You will be asked to chart an example review .... include every minute...
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    Falsely accused of med diversion

    You are not accused of med diversion, you have not followed policy. Placing a narc in your pocket can be grounds for immediate dismissal. Review the policy.Pharmacy has a protocol that THEY must...
  25. Been there,done that

    Staff turnover

    What a most excellent way to describe "butt