VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

Long Term Care Columnist / Guide

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    patient/family challenges

    When I worked in assisted living and LTC, I thought it would have been a piece of cake if all I'd had to worry about were the patients. The families were what got me. SOME of them were wonderful and...
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    Can I still be an RN if I was in a Mental Hospital?

    Even if you do have to disclose, some BONs will not make a big deal out of it if you explain that you're under the care of a doctor and have been stable since your hospitalization. I had to do it when...
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    Obesity: A disease or a lifestyle

    THIS.^^ I also feel it's necessary to remind folks that food is the one "addiction" that can't be completely eliminated. You can give up drinking, smoking, drugs (and I've given up all three) but you...
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    renewing license last minute

    So much is done online these days, usually the only "paperwork" you get from the BON is an e-mail reminder that your license renewal is due in x-amount of days. My state does send a courtesy postcard,...
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    Most surprising/shocking/interesting thing you've seen

    I once cared for a patient who had an abdominal wound the size of a honeydew melon. She was the victim of a gastric bypass gone horribly wrong (she got a severe infection) and had had repeated...
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    Non-FIT Nurses and FIT Nurses

    The question should be, how do you NOT eat all that bacon?? Why, it's one of the four food
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    Jacob Rockstar-RN Psych Nurse Action Figure

    BWAAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!
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    Caring for morbidly obese bariatric Pt

    Why would obese patients have any more anger issues than other types of
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    I am so discouraged

    Hi, Mac, and welcome to Allnurses! We are glad you're here. You have my sympathies. I've had a couple of on-the-job nervous breakdowns myself, so I can relate all too easily. I used to think it was...
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    Jacob Rockstar-RN Psych Nurse Action Figure

    I'm not even a psych nurse and I found this hilarious!! Where do you GET this stuff,
  11. Hello there, and welcome to Allnurses. I'm sorry this happened to you; it must be very disappointing. However, even with all of the asterisks used here, there are too many identifiers and too much...
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    Grief - how can we avoid it as nurses loosing a patient?

    It's different every time we lose a patient. Some deaths are harder to bear than others. Obviously we can't burst into hysterics when a patient we care about dies, we have to remain professional. It's...
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    To scrub or not to scrub...?

    That's different. If they tell you to wear scrubs, OK, otherwise it's best to wear business attire. The days when you could go from work to a job interview at another facility are gone for good (to...
  14. Danskos were too heavy for me. I didn't like them at all and never wore them after the first few shifts I worked in them. I went back to New Balance, which I swear were made for me---they always fit,...
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    Keeping feet moisturized

    I know this will sound weird, but I swear by Bag Balm ointment. It was originally meant for cows when their udders became sore, but it's suitable for human use as well. You'll want to use an old pair...
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    Should I give up and find another job?

    Hello, and welcome to Allnurses! We're glad you're here. To answer your questions: Your manager owes you an explanation of what "concerns" they have about your performance. It is not fair to say this...
  17. If you clocked in for your shift, then yes, technically you walked out on your job and can be fired. Often facilities will report this to the Board of Nursing as well. I'm sorry, but the BON takes...
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    Accusing Hospice

    That last paragraph gave me goosebumps. What a beautiful piece. Thank you for sharing this experience with
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    bipolar recovering addict cant get job ! is it over

    I've been reading this thread on and off, and I'm sorry it's devolved into a peeing contest between members. PCORRAL asked for support, not judgment. As someone who struggles with bipolar and...
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    Being an individual

    Work really isn't the place to display one's fashion sense. That being said, I had a drawerful of colorful and even whimsical scrunchies that I used to keep my hair up, and I changed them every day....
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    Seasoned nurses, I need your wisdom!!

    A stress-free nursing job?? Where do I sign up? Seriously.....yes, you could use more clinical experience. However, you have a job that a) you are happy with, and b) doesn't cause you to want to run...
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    Mispronunciations That Drive You Nuts

    My family does stuff like that all the time, but the best was Bates Nut Farm, which I accidentally called Nate's Butt Farm. They have never let me live that one down, and to this day I have to think...
  23. Haunting and well-written. Thank you so much for sharing this with
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    too scared of going back to nursing

    I echo what caliotter said. You have got to get your mental faculties together or you will not be able to practice nursing. I can empathize because I have some of the same anxiety issues and can no...
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    Career advice welcome!

    Hello, and Welcome to Allnurses! I don't know enough about your circumstances to advise you, other than to say go with what your heart tells you. Life is simply too short to be unhappy at work. Find...