VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

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    Required to disclose hx of depression

    It's possible. Employers tend not to be very understanding of mental health issues. If you've been stable for seven years and are not on meds, there really is no need to disclose your medical history....
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    Appropriate to go to a patients funeral?

    I have attended funerals of certain patients/residents with whom I bonded. It always made the families happy that their loved one's nurse would take the time to come pay last respects, but it was also...
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    Do you talk to yourself?

    Of course I answer myself. If I didn't, who
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    skill base/knowledge

    Frankly, I think you found your calling. If you want to keep your technical skills intact, you can always take refresher courses and go to conferences for nurses. Pulling out the old textbooks, not so...
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    "Public" Perceptions Changing?

    Ugh. I watched only about a minute and a half and that was enough for
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    Nurses' week gifts!

    I must have worked in some really cheap places.....about the coolest Nurses Week gifts I ever got was a tote bag at one place and a pen at another. Most didn't even recognize Nurses Week. I'm glad for...
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    "What to Expect When You're a Patient"

    When I was a nurse, I used to invest 10-15 minutes at the beginning of the shift in my most challenging patient/family, discussing what the goals were for that shift, dealing with pain and answering...
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    Good News!

    Yes, it really took a lot of pressure off my back. Now I'm at least contributing to the family funds---I have felt TERRIBLE for not bringing any money in all these months. And there's no more pressure...
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    Coming out with mental health... or not?

    Don't disclose your illness at work. It's almost always a bad idea. If you have someone at work you can trust to be discreet, you could as them to do this for you, but I really think you're better off...
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    Leave Great Job?

    There is going to be a huge influx of geriatric patients as we Baby Boomers move into old age. If working with the elderly is your passion, stick with it! There are many opportunities in this field...
  11. People can usually forgive anything but a co-worker who rises from the ranks. I'd vote for an external
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    Texas

    The thing they will ask on the application is whether or not you've been diagnosed or treated for bipolar within the past five years, so even if you wind up being "un-diagnosed" with BP you may still...
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    Esme Needs Your Prayers

    Prayers continue for Esme and her
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    How can I improve my reputation?

    As the saying goes, what others think of you is none of your business. You can't keep endlessly worrying about what your co-workers think or it will drive you crazy. Concentrate on the fact that your...
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    Can we just agree, being honest is not akin to being "rude"?

    Haha! This thread looks like it's morphed into the "What's That Smell?" one. Aw, what the heck, it's more fun this way. As you
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    WHATS THAT SMELL???

    Back when I worked LTC, there were several residents with distinct aromas, and I always knew from the air wafting through the hallway which of them it was: "Hmm, smells like Marian's constipation has...
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    WHATS THAT SMELL???

    Or, better yet: "Hold my beer :roflmao:and watch this!"
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    Texas

    From what I understand, Texas does allow nurses with MI to be licensed. However, they may require you to participate in a nurse monitoring program called TPAPN, in which you must attend counseling,...
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    Ph Nurse reborn

    I'd like to help you but I'm having a hard time understanding your post. What is bpo? And where are you located so we know how to direct you? Please
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    What did you do when you got burnt out?

    Had a nervous breakdown. I'm not kidding. And then I took a two-month sabbatical while I figured out what to do next. I wound up taking a job as director of nursing services in an assisted living...
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    Taking care of DNR patients. The point?

    I'm a DNR. That means if I'm found down, with no respirations and no pulse, I want to be left alone so my soul can go free. BUT---until I reach that point, I want treatment that respects my dignity...
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    Black Humour

    Okay everybody, I have laughed my way through this entire thread, including videos, and I've been to the bathroom TWICE now for fear of peeing my pants!! I don't know how I missed this thread but I'm...
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    This is my story... please read.

    Congratulations!!
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    marijuana and nursing.

    My state recently legalized marijuana (although it's not official till July 1st). I am unaware of any law that says it's OK to indulge and work as a nurse, and I don't think that will change for the...
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    Esme Needs Your Prayers

    I'm so glad she's doing better, and I am also impatient waiting for her to get well so she can come back to us. We've all missed her wisdom and her giving spirit. Good thoughts and prayers continue,...