VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

Long Term Care Columnist / Guide

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    Blemished background-sick days

    I had a lot of health issues in my last job too (most of which, it turns out, were in fact CAUSED by the stress of the job), so you have my sympathies. The truth is, employers are generally prohibited...
  2. As the saying goes: You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. Your friend undoubtedly knows the consequences of continuing to eat as she does. (Knowing and doing are two different...
  3. I've been a nurse for almost nine years. I'll let you know when it happens for me. Actually, I'm just kidding.........but the truth is, the nurse who stays just a teensy bit nervous is almost always...
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    Ever have patients who are a little *too* honest?

    Oh, the stories I can tell about dementia patients.......... In the first LTC where I worked, there was this one sweet little lady from Alabama, who had an accent so thick you could cut it with a...
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    So, I had a bad day......

    Oh, these are the stories that make my heart hurt....... I can't imagine being without my husband of TWENTY-five years.......how do people get through it, when the spouse they loved for 40 or 50 or 60...
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    Tell Me Why??? Frustrated

    That was one of the reasons I left hospital nursing. After five years of Med/Surg/float experience, my career was more or less stalled---even though I had critical care and OB-GYN experience under my...
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    So, I had a bad day......

    This is much more than a "bad day"........a shift doesn't get much worse than that. I would strongly encourage you all to have a debriefing session, preferably with the hospital chaplain and a...
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    Healthier Living Support Thread: PART TWO!

    I'm really beginning to think that the key to stress management is to follow your bliss........I don't think I've ever been so relaxed in my adult life as I am now, despite being in a new job where I...
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    I Need Some Comfort Please

    I just got home a little while ago and ran across this thread. I'm so sorry to read your post about your little darling, but glad there are things that can be done to fix her up. Prayers being sent...
  10. Well, now you've got me wondering...........I always aspirate when giving IM's and never gotten blood return, but then I've never given baby shots except for the times I worked in the newborn nursery...
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    Do you regret being a nurse

    No. Never. I've been burned out, treated like a glorified pack animal, yelled at, cursed, micromanaged, disrespected, "eaten", and even had my life threatened.........but I can't imagine wanting to do...
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    Isn't this ridiculous?

    Well, now that's something entirely different, and I don't blame you a bit for being less than enthusiastic about what the administrator wants you to do. (In fact, I'd be tempted to tell her to go...
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    Isn't this ridiculous?

    I also work in assisted living, and we have several sliding-scale diabetics whom we manage just fine. We have very detailed instructions for the caregivers as to when SS insulin is to be given, how it...
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    How did you hear about allnurses.com?

    I stumbled across the site in 2000, when I bought my first home computer. I lurked here for a couple of years, and then right around the first anniversary of 9/11, I decided for some reason to join up...
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    Is it ever ok to force a resident to change?

    If you haven't done so already, please let your facility nurse know about these problems. It's her job to know what's going on with each resident and to assist with the development of his/her...
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    Anyone come back to Med Surg?

    I hate to tell you this, but it's only gotten worse in the past few years. Patient acuity has gone through the roof---those who would have been in critical care units only six months to a year ago,...
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    "Part" Indian?

    That makes me feel so much more 'in tune' with my distant Native American ancestry.......I never really believed I had a right to call myself Cherokee, but this has taught me to think differently....
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    From Canada (CBC) an article about Nurses and Stress:

    I don't think it's just nursing that gets more stressful every year, and I don't think it affects just us grownups...........have you seen that commercial for Children's Pepto-Bismol? It's cute, but...
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    What De-Stress technique works for you?

    Yup, the tanning bed is wonderful.........so is time spent w/ my grandson Eli (I call it "baby therapy" ) and gardening. I also enjoy my nighttime 'chats' with God, which never fail to send me to...
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    Ghostbusters lyrics re-make can you help?

    Oooooooooh, Lord, I'm almost afraid of what's gonna come out if I try this one.......(no pun intended!).......... When it's been too long, and you just can't 'go', Who ya gonna call? BowelBusters!...
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    Healthier Living Support Thread: PART TWO!

    Ya know what they say about great minds, Deb......... I was thinking the same thing. Let's do
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    lithotomy...seriously?

    You mean they're still making women give birth in the dead-bug position despite all the progress that's been made in obstetrics over the past 15-20 years?? I thought the process had become more humane...
  23. What you'll find is a full-page ad for a certain brand of enema, complete with the funniest visual aid to come along in years: EneMan!!:rotfl: He's a little green guy with orange shoes and an orange...
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    Medical Conditions

    I don't know of any offhand, even nurses with Hep C and HIV are practicing, and as long as everyone observes standard precautions there shouldn't be any additional risks. Acute conditions (such as...
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    Need advice, being called in to the DON on Tues a.m.

    Sounds just like the assisted-living management company I worked for a few years ago. I was the RN for THREE buildings and a total of 160 residents, and was never in a given facility more than 10-20...