VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

Long Term Care Columnist / Guide

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  1. You're two weeks in? It took me two YEARS to feel confident in my nursing practice. Even so, I had to start all over again at every new job and learn everything from the ground up, so if you're...
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    What was your first job as a new graduate?

    My very first nursing job was in a small LTC where I did my clinicals and fell in love with the place. It didn't take me long to realize that this was NOT my dream job; in fact, it was a nightmare. We...
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    New to assisted living is this normal

    A lot depends on what your facility's acuity level is. If you've got mostly residents who are fairly independent, the workload is reasonable. But if you have a number of dependent residents who need...
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    It's That Time of Year Again: Preparing for Influenza Season

    I'm religious about getting a flu shot every year. The last time I didn't get one was 1992, and I spent the entire winter and spring in and out of the ER with bronchitis and pneumonia. It was a...
  5. That's terrible. What a toxic environment. They should have taken you aside and discussed it with you in private, not laid it all out there for everyone to hear. If I were you I'd start looking...
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    Nursing Smells You Love?

    This is weird, but...the smell of brand-new IV tubing. (I like plastic of all kinds, especially new placemats and shower curtains.) I also like the odor of alcohol
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    How to be successful with mental illness

    I have a friend who is going through EMDR and gives it mixed reviews. Maybe she hasn't been going long enough (five weeks). She's bipolar 2 with a LOT of anxiety, which causes her more distress than...
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    Ethical Dilemma: Is it ever ok to mislead a patient?

    I have fought more battles about medication than I can count. Mostly, they were about discontinuing the many vitamins and supplements some residents were prescribed that really served no purpose other...
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    How to be successful with mental illness

    I wish I had some words of wisdom. I once went through three jobs in less than a year, and ever after that I had trouble getting another job. Actually, I never did, despite many interviews; I ended up...
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    The ridiculousness of LTC/SNF

    One of my more unusual roles as an LTC nurse was exterminator. I'm not kidding. My facility sat on what was perhaps the largest ant colony in these United States, and the little buggers loved to...
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    Depression and Nursing

    LindaGracie, you're singing my song. Mental illness cost me my career and I had to retire at age 55, long before I'd planned to. I live on Social Security Disability with bipolar I disorder and...
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    Punny nursing names

    Amy Triptyline? Ella
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    Patient had Fall, my fault

    That sounds like something I would do, I've just never had the opportunity. Thanks for the funny
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    I need advice about leaving a job!

    Always give at least 2 weeks notice. It's not only a professional courtesy, but it will likely keep you off the "do not rehire" list at that company. Don't burn bridges, you never know when you'll...
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    Dealing with death?

    If you haven't had one already, please see if you can have a debriefing with the staff involved in the code. This can be led by anyone, including the hospital chaplain, and it often helps to express...
  16. Obviously, bad things are known to happen when drivers blow past school bus STOP signs. Recently in Portland a little girl was killed in such a manner; they didn't show the whole thing on TV of...
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    What is your "thing" and how do you deal with it?

    Me too. And dentures...those are my nursing Kryptonite. Give me blood, vomit, sputum, even a GI bleed any day of the week---but please don't make me deal with feet or oral care.
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    Student nurse here. Am i going to be a bad nurse??

    You have been given excellent advice here. I can't really add a lot, but I'll say that I'm proud of you for taking constructive criticism with a humble heart. The worst kind of nurse is the one who...
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    Questionable actions that make you go hmm?

    I wish there was an "ewww" emoji. Guess I'll have to be contented with
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    Is this a viable solution?

    Never share mental health issues with your employer if you can possibly avoid it. It's 2019 and stigma should have long since disappeared, but it hasn't, and you don't want to paint a big target on...
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    Ever been a clinical instructor?

    I loved being a substitute clinical instructor! This was back in the day when an associate's degree nurse could work with first-quarter students in the LTC setting. They weren't passing meds yet, they...
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    Medigrip tips please??

    I had to do this for myself for several months after I sustained a severe laceration to my right lower leg in a fall at Disney World on Christmas night 2017 (long story). It got infected, and I had...
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    Which job would you take?

    I'd take Job #2. You'll save enough in gas and frustration to make up for the lower salary, I think. And low acuity would be a dream (at least for me; you may feel differently). I've done the commuter...
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    No more lifting

    Thank you. I hadn't reckoned on all that. I stand
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    No more lifting

    Have you considered NICU? Or, if you're open to the idea of leaving hospital nursing, how about telephonic triage nursing, utilization review, or case management? There are lots of nursing jobs that...