VivaLasViejas ASN, RN

LTC, assisted living, med-surg, psych

Once a nurse, always a nurse!

Long Term Care Columnist / Guide

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    Mental health hospitalization

    Been there, done that (my hospitalization for suicidal ideation). I wasn't working at the time so there were no decisions to make regarding telling my employer, but I highly recommend keeping this...
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    Depression + Anxiety as a Nurse

    I live with bipolar I and anxiety, so I can relate to your struggles. Before things went south on me toward the end of my career, I held many stressful jobs and fought anxiety through each and every...
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    Can CNAs pass meds in assisted living in Arkansas?

    In my state (OR), care staff who aren't even certified can pass meds and even give SQ injections. The facility RN delegates these tasks to the med assistant and checks them off on skills every three...
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    What would cause this?

    My husband had pancreatic CA with mets to the liver, which caused some bloating. The night he died, his abdomen blew up suddenly and became severely distended; then he began to vomit frank blood in...
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    Quit my CNA Job ???!

    Don't quit your CNA job, unless you have another one lined up and it's a step up from your current position. Like another PP said, some of the best nurses, NPs, PAs and others were CNAs to start with....
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    Mental illness and BON

    My experience: I self-reported my bipolar 1 diagnosis when my license was up for renewal in 2015. It had significantly affected my life and career, and I wasn't even working at the time. Nothing ever...
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    Dilaudid & Zofran?

    I've been given Zofran with Dilaudid on more than one occasion, and it was wonderful stuff. It prevents nausea, which Dilaudid is known to cause, without making me stupid (the Dilaudid accomplishes...
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    Don't Say The "Q" word!

    As the saying goes, if you want to make God laugh, tell him your plans.
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    Seriously? I'm concussed!

    Wow. Concussions are no joke...just ask a football player with CTE. Your manager is an orifice. Don't go back into work until you are completely over the
  10. It's my understanding that disability issues are handled by HR and not management. You will have to disclose the reason to whoever is in control of that department, and you'll need a doctor's note...
  11. It is none of your employer's or co-workers' business what your time on short-term disability is for. You have no obligation to tell them anything. The only way they'll find out is if you speak up...
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    Setting the Precedent: Nurses Fired for Being Sick

    I was fired from a job essentially for having a chronic mental illness. I'd had to go out on medical LOA for three weeks, then came back with a very brief list of accommodations, signed by my doctor,...
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    Use it or...lose it? A&P and Nursing

    Ah, the good ol' Krebs cycle. I remember it from Chemistry, Nutrition, and A & P and once could have explained the whole thing to you backwards and forwards. That was over 25 years ago. It really...
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    Finger picking and biting

    Have you ever heard of excoriation disorder? It is an actual disorder that features the repetitive behavior of picking at the skin, often to the point of bleeding and scarring. Many people pick scabs...
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    My facility is restraining a resident and I feel that I can't help.

    Not in long-term (intermediate) care facilities, unless the resident's doctor orders VS to be taken routinely, or a nurse using nursing judgment deems it necessary. As someone else already said, the...
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    For those who have taken board drug tests

    I wouldn't chance it if I were you. I know kratom can be found at every 7-11, but just in case it turns up on a UDS, you don't want to have it in your system. Just my $.02
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    Ethical Dilemma: Is it ever ok to mislead a patient?

    Don't you just love families? Sigh...The good ones are worth their weight in gold, but when I was working in LTC we seemed to have more of the helicopter type. I was tempted more than once to tell...
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    Support Planned Parenthood Today!

    Thank you.
  19. I'm a (retired) nurse who had a 20+ year career despite bipolar and anxiety. It got really bad when I hit my early 50s and I ended up leaving nursing, but most of my career was good and I'll never...
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    The one thing in nursing/medical that makes you shudder?

    Feet are nasty. And mouths. I'd rather suction a trach or clean up after a GI bleed than deal with toes falling off in my hand or washing dentures that have days' worth of food in them. I can do these...
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    Jobs outside of healthcare after burnout

    My son is in a similar situation. He's never worked outside health care and he is burned to a crisp. He is also in school for his BSN, which almost seems like a waste of time if he's no longer happy...
  22. When I first heard of this case, I felt that the criminal charges were an overreaction to an unfortunate mistake, but failed to understand why RV's license hadn't been pulled. As I've learned more,...
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    Caring for a neighbor?

    Your nursing judgment is correct. There are so many ways for this to go haywire. Who protects your license when you're giving care to someone who isn't "officially" your patient? How would you keep...
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    Nursing Home "Fight Club"

    I was thinking the same thing. There's an awful lot of stupid on the hoof these days. They walk among us, they vote, and (!) they reproduce. I honestly don't know how these idiots thought they'd get...
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    Should I disclose bipolar disorder 1

    From a fellow nurse with bipolar I: don't do it. Don't disclose anything about your illness. No good can come from it. I don't normally advocate lying, but I have lost jobs for being bipolar---that...