Nurse-One

I read most of these comments. Unless you had martial issues before he began nursing school, I don't see the need for counseling--at least not yet. What you may already understand is that nursing school is extremely challenging. And almost all nursing students have some fear and anxiety of failing and not making it to the next semester. You said he's only one month in; is that one month in taking prereqs or are these his core nursing theory and clinical courses? Either way the challenge is on; the information he is asked to know is overwhelming. However, I would suggest you give him some time to adjust to the studying. Let him get a pattern and some knowledge down so he can be confident in himself on how to study and how to get back to the plans of family time. During nursing school, I was beyond stressed, lost so much weight my uniforms became to big for me (size medium), had acne all over my face from stressing over exams and had the responsibility of raising my 3 yr old son as a single parent without family or friends help. I felt extremely guilty of having to sit him in front of the TV all the time while I studied. And to make more time for studying, I use to drink energy drinks to stay awake throughout the whole night, especially nights before exams so I can study without interruption from my 3 yr old. It was hell, and I cried sometimes but that is the nature of the nursing curriculum. It's demanding, hence his reason for jetting to the library. I'm not saying he's right for doing so but, I can understand his reason. Just give the man time to adjust but don't crumble if he doesn't. I don't think what you're asking is much but like I read in one of these comments, nursing school is not forever. On your part you may have to sacrifice more than you're willing to right now. Hoping he adjust well and you remain the stable in your marriage.

Don't give up! I was in the same situation you were in, especially GPA wise. I got in where I could, as you can see getting accepted is a challenge because of the competitiveness. While on a wait list to get into a BSN program at my college, I was able to finish all my co-reqs. Even when that was over, I was still waiting. I took another route, I applied for the LPN program that was about to begin in my area I started immediately. Been an LPN for 5yrs making more money than I would have waiting for God knows how long. (I worked as a CNA and Unit Secretary) Now I'm one exam away from being done with my RN program. Yeah it's 5yrs later (time, money delays) but I've build up so much nursing experience and now working for an insurance company away from the bedside- I was burnt-out from bedside nursing. I'd suggest applying for the ADN program. Or check out LPN programs. Some nurse hopefuls don't even consider that an option but the LPN position is not to be underestimated. Just get in where you can for now. Not sure what your living situation is like but moving (although not easy) may be beneficial. Oh, I would stop letting coworkers about your nursing school status because of the exact experience you are going through. Although unintended, some people's reaction can become a downer towards an already challenging situation. Nursing is very versatile and before you know it you'll reach your goal.

No you won't lose your license. Saftey first. From what you wrote there was offense that would cause you to lose your license.

I love being a christian nurse and as a overall individual myself.

Thanks so much for the answers!! I have registered like suggested, But now im wondering, if I register to take the exam (health and saftey and transitions LPN to RN) does that mean i will be given a test date or do i pick the test date? I didn't continue with that section because I havn't even begun to study. I don't want to be assigned a test date and not be ready. Can I register for the exams and have the practice exam made available to me with out given or asked to pick a test date? Hope my question makes sense. Thanks again!

Hi everyone, I've been reading all the fourms on excelsior and I have a pretty good understanding of completing this program in a timely manor. I would like to finish the program before 2012 (if CPNE date is not months away after finishing all theory exams) I've been searching Excelsior site for the Practice exams but I'm not sure where to find them PLUS im not sure which practice exam is specific for each individual exam I have some questions: 1. Can anyone put up the link of where these practice exams are located? 2. And also these "study guide" that are free on excelsior site are they the ones in the 'exam content guide and documentation' which are PDF files? 3. Also any advice on NCLEX RN practice question CD that could be of help? Any other advice would help. thanks in advance.

Hi, Id like to ask how you did your studying. I purchased all the required books for the 1st exam Id like to take, the health and safety one. with so many books and chapters to go through how did you focus your study. Did you only have the practice exams to help? Also, would you mind telling me how you were able to take the practice exams. I know there's a fee, but I'm not sure how to access the correct practice exam for the Health and Safety exam. I have all these books and im lost and don't know how to study efficiently. thanks in advance for your help!

I take it you're a perfectionist. This is a forum, not a nurse's note or research paper. True. But after a while, one year after graduation the most, you should know what to expect. Expect the unexpected. True. I agree, we shouldn't let our frustration build up inside. The frequency, attitude and delivery of these frustrations being expressed is another story.

Okay I got some good laughs out of the "whinny" reply post. To correct myself it's "whiny" I did write a disclaimer at the the bottom of my original post that there are misspelled words. I must admit I didn't bother to try to correct, so sorry :) But its good to be able to laugh at yourself. I was venting a bit, yes. But unlike some coworkers I've come across it's no longer venting when it's done every time they come on their shift. I can't even get through my report without getting interrupted. I've worked at other facilities so, no, it's not only this current facility. I have tried to sympathize with the nurse's responses and of course I relate with what they say, but it's when they have the attitude like they didn't realize they walked into a building with sick people and they carry the title of a Nurse. I get questions like, "Why did they put such and such patient on my wing?" How do you answer such a question?...woman, I don't know maybe the admission department doesn't like the shape of your head and they want to make your shift miserable....okay, I'm just kidding. I do give empathetic responses. I'm done :) I love being a nurse and I do love my fellow nurses, just for the record. later.

Questions: i was lookingon the excelsior website for the practice exam for the Health and Saftey but did not notice it listed can anyone help me locate (with a link, if possible) to find the health and saftey practice exam?? I bought the recommended textbooks, should I also buy the study guides? how can i properly read/study to get the information I need to pass the exam how many exams are there before the CPNE (sp?) I see 16 nurse exam listed, but i read in another fourm that there were only 5 or 6 anyone able to help clear this up for me pls. Thanks!! Im so ready to learn and get my RN. I've ordered all the recommended books and am waiting to recieve them...

I can't stand it when im giving report to nurses who whine about their job duties. the stress and some of the nonsense of the work environment comes with the territory. "Oh my gosh, another admission" "why do I have so many peg tubes" "Omg I have so many wounds to treat" etc... yes its stressful yes the drug seeking patient can be annoying but stop acting like you didn't know what you where getting into when you entered nursing school. See, my feet hurt after most of my shift (even with the best shoes) I do my job to the best of my abilities including skills and go home not expecting a phone call about me missing something or not completing a task. We are human and we can make mistakes but nursing is WORK. If you cannot handle stress dont go into nursing (or any other profession) which requires you to mulittask, think critically, and serve it all with a smile and keeping a compassionate heart. My advice, find your balance. Let the stuff that took place from the previous shift go. start new again. Don't hold any grudges against a patient or coworker. you see them everyday (most likely) Empathize, sympathize. how would you want to be treated if you were in their position. when I feel myself getting annoyed and stressed I think to myself, "I thank God Im not the one in that bed with that Dx. I am an able boided person who can treat and help this human-being inspite of their such and such..." you get the point. anyway i didnt mean to write so much. lots of misspelled word, I know. later.

Ounce I clock out of work I leave work behind. I don't want to think about the patients or coworkers, etc until its about an hour before my shift. I dont get why nurses would carry the stress and nonsense of the work environment out side the building The most I'd do is vent to a close friend/family where our conversation is private where other ears will not here. and that would be the end of it...

Hi everyone, I've been doing my research on ISU. Ive been 100% sure that this is the school i want to get my bsn but the clinicals part is giving me second thoughts now. I've read many other old threads on ISU and a link to local clinical facilities was avail. I typed in PA for my state and all the (already contracted) facilities were 5hrs away. I live in philly the facilities for clinicals are in pittsburgh. big distance between east and west. i wanted to use the facilities that are already contracted. but here is my ques: Can all the clinicals be done in one facility? Or must they be a different facilities? Are there no avail facilities because they havent been set up yet? I'm willing to do the drive if I could possibly do 12hr shifts in less days. I detest sitting in a class room at this point. And what's up with this video tapping an assessment of a patient. does this have to be a real patient? wouldn't this be violating HIPPA? Are there any other video tapping assignments? Can someone please explain to me the details of how you did or understand this assignment? I just want to know what im getting into before putting all my energy into the enrollment process. I don't want any roadblocks. I want to do this and get it over with. thanks for reading and answering if possible.

Well, said Sir!!

Ha, ha that quote was directed to the person who replied calling me chicken little:down: Yeah, some people too this straight to the heart. I'm not being pessimistic; I'm simply stating what is going on and how I see MANY people jumping from a different profession into nursing. Go for that nursing degree it that's where your heart is! And if you happen to live in a state where the nursing pool for NEW and EXPERIENCED nurses will land you a job, well more power to ya. But in the mean time, Imma keep looking for a job--any job (well almost) until my nursing opportunity comes a'knocking.