SmilingBluEyes

Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis

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    Energetic after your shift.

    Yes, after a good shift at work, where I feel I made a difference, or did a really good job, I drive home "pumped" and with the music ALLLL the way up. Sometimes, I have to take a walk or go to the...
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    New grad, do not feel challenged at all. Help?

    Shoot, people call me "kiddo" (or something like it) all the time and I am far from a kid. I don't get all bent out of shape, and take it in stride. Always have. Never let it bother me. Most mean it...
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    Does this feeling ever go away?

    Yes it does. It does get better, I promise. It happens WHEN you have experience and excellent time management skills; you feel "on top" of it. OF course, where you work matters. Where I work, when...
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    I have 60 grand of student loan when I finished BSN

    I guess a lot depends on where you are in life. Me, I am 20 years in, closing on retirement and would NEVER EVER consider 60K in loans at this point. I have a great job, decent money and live well. If...
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    Why so many newbies on night shift?

    Pay the experienced nurse handsomely and make incentives for him/her to work nights, then you will see change. Most don't want to work nights, and as you said, run for dayshift once their number comes...
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    New grad, do not feel challenged at all. Help?

    One more thing: SINCE you have had all 4 of your kids in the NICU, I would presume you would have wanted the most qualified and capable nurses caring for YOUR 4 kids? Or is that an unfair assumption?...
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    New grad, do not feel challenged at all. Help?

    Hope this is not your attitude and behavior in the unit. This post was un-called for. You can agree to disagree, but not insult members for having an opinion on a post YOU decided to make public. You...
  8. YOU ARE KIDDING RIGHT?This is NO reason to join the military! You do realize when we do (AND I DID; I am a veteran)--- you sign your life away on the dotted line to Uncle Sam and if need be, lay...
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    Nurses who don't have the "passion"

    YES YES
  10. AWESOME. But I tried all that with my son, to no avail. He was active in sports from age 5 til he graduated high school. It was never enough. Sometimes, we have to accept medical help is beneficial...
  11. Agreed ----as a mom of an ADHD kid and a person with ADHD
  12. WHY would you word this as if it's either/or for us? How about BOTH. And what is the reason you are asking? This is a heck of a first post as a new member. Looking for controversy or do you really...
  13. This qualifies as an opinion piece, not a true scholarly article. I question that opinion pieces should be claimed as "articles" as if vetted somehow. I think, anyhow, It's misleading on...
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    Nurses who don't have the "passion"

    I guess you may find out when you are in the trenches as a nurse with us. Til then, you may not fully understand, but you can respect their feelings one way or the other. Most nurses come in always...
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    Do women find male nurses attractive?

    Wow so much vitriol. Dude, it's the 'net. Calm down
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    Would You Do This?

    I think you already know this is unsafe, I would not be comfortable with your
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    Nurses who don't have the "passion"

    Will you PLEASE use the "quote" feature so we can know who the heck you are talking to? ........and YOUR idea of "sin" and mine are complete different. I think it more of a "sin" to judge others'...
  18. People who are chronically late are disrespectful and selfish. There are always a couple of them in the bunch and management always seems to turn a blind eye to it. I am never late to work unless...
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    Do women find male nurses attractive?

    You ARE joking, right? At least you better
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    Telling Patients/Residents You Love Them?

    No!!! Wrong on so many
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    Not firing a nurse for being unsafe

    MYOB. You got enough in going on not to pay attention to such issues with
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    Why are we so complacent with high patient loads

    What do I think? THIS is why I don't do LTC or hospital nursing
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    Surplus of Nurses - should I think twice?

    Go ahead and go in IF your job outlook where you plan to practice looks better than this. Otherwise, you may find yourself in a LONG LONG line of new grads who are out of school a year, 2 or more and...
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    Don't you feel guilty for not working in a hospital?

    No I don't. I am happy NOT working in a hospital and I challenge anyone to ask my coworkers and patients that I am, indeed, a "real" nurse. I am very
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    Hired at 7 months pregnant, now what?

    You received some good advice. I just want to congratulate you on your