Nurses General Nursing
Updated: Nov 4, 2020 Published Oct 30, 2020
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Hoosier_RN, MSN
3,960 Posts
4 hours ago, RJHKRJ said: Then you are aware of the no drama type of mentality. Unless that wasn’t part of your training? What about resiliency and mental toughness? That’s what I’m referencing. I never had the chance/luxury (choose whatever adjective fits your liking) to be a victim. Like I mentioned, was trained to look at both sides of the coin/spectrum. Relates? ? It relates since you mentioned, victim mentality. Based on my experience I’m more inclined to think he should look at other options rather than take it. My opinion though, could be wrong, right or needs improvement. Thanks be safe
Then you are aware of the no drama type of mentality. Unless that wasn’t part of your training? What about resiliency and mental toughness? That’s what I’m referencing. I never had the chance/luxury (choose whatever adjective fits your liking) to be a victim. Like I mentioned, was trained to look at both sides of the coin/spectrum.
Relates? ?
It relates since you mentioned, victim mentality. Based on my experience I’m more inclined to think he should look at other options rather than take it. My opinion though, could be wrong, right or needs improvement. Thanks be safe
OK, but you mentioned that someone else had the military/legal background, not you. That's why I wondered how it was relevant.
RJHKRJ, LPN
7 Posts
3 hours ago, Hoosier_RN said: OK, but you mentioned that someone else had the military/legal background, not you. That's why I wondered how it was relevant.
The person is a very close relative.
6 minutes ago, RJHKRJ said: The person is a very close relative.
So, in a way I’ve been “trained” to look at different perspectives and not behave as the victim “why it only happens to me?” kind of outlook. It was not and still it is not allowed. In my particular situation, I was lucky I had that buffer since playing victim often times backfires. If not at the beginning, somewhere down the road. Eventually we show who we are, good or bad or in between LOL