Plan A Quashed. Need a Plan B
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Hi. I'am a 52 yo granny nurse who's been working nights for almost a year in cardiac progressive care doing my obligatory 1 year of med/surg, which is not my cup of tea. Before going to nursing school I was CD(DONA) and LCCE for years. I had wanted to be a midwife, but the employment situation is not good for them now in my area. I have an ADN in nursing with a very high GPA, and a BA in Liberal Arts, also with a very high GPA. My original plan was to go into an RN-BSN-MSN program and become a WHNP. I could have gone to school for that, but I was thinking that it would be a better plan to earn the RN first, go to work (my family really needs the money), and do the schooling slowly and let my hospital pay for it. Besides, I did nursing school for free thanks to a wonderful scholarship.
Well, now I'm looking to further my schooling and for career direction. I cannot be a bedside nurse for the next 20 years. For the time being, as soon as I can, I want to transfer to L&D or Postpartum, preferably days. But even that is not what I want to end up doing "forever." I looked into schools that have a WHNP program, and discovered that even online distance programs require at some point 16 hours per week of clinical, which I just cannot do while working full time. Going down to part time is just not an option - we really need the money. So I need to know what to work toward.
The first step, I think, is to earn a BSN from Excelsior - the easiest and cheapest way. But what are my options from there. My dream was to work in primary women's health in wellness care. I hate bedside nursing. I don't like geriatrics, dementia, cleaning poop, breaking my already weak back and knees, and all that. I love communicating with patients and families, and teaching. I love explaining what's going on, what's the plan for patients, and why we do things. I love learning and incorporating that into my practice. I'm more of a brain than a brawn person. (Maybe I'm a nerd?) I've been made fun of by colleagues for talking to patients and families so much, for pushing lifestyle changes ("If these people were interested in changing their diets or quitting smoking they wouldn't be here in the first place.") , for thinking more like a doctor than like a nurse. I hate having to work fast to the point of sacrificing quality for speed. For example, I cringe when I see nurses put things into IV ports without wiping them first because it takes 2 seconds longer.
I'm really down about having to let go of another dream. So I'm trying to figure out what to aim for and how to proceed to get there. I would even consider working with a nursing career mentor if I knew how to get to one and it wasn't too expensive. Thanks for taking the time to read this. All the best.