For the last 20+ years I've been casual at a tiny (12 bed) rural critical access hospital. I mainly work there because its a lot of fun and I'm often the only RN on duty.
The hospital has an attached small nursing home. It's usually staffed with one nurse, usually an RN but sometimes an LPN at night and 2 or 3 CNAs.
Last week my phone rang in the middle of the night and it was the DON of the hospital/nursing home calling me from out of state where she was on vacation. She asked my to come in and cover the nursing home for a few hours as the LPN on duty couldn't be found.
One of the CNAs went to talk to the nurse and couldn't find him. After a search of the bathrooms and other usual places failed to turn up the nurse the CNA called the DON, who called me and the police.
I know NOTHING about nursing home nursing. I've spent my whole career in critical care and ER but I agreed to go in to "just be there". I arrived at about 3AM, the LPN had been missing for about an hour.
The only deputy sheriff on duty in the (very rural) county showed up and conducted a search of the surrounding area that also failed to find the missing nurse.
About an hour before shift change (so absent about 4 hours) the missing nurse strolls in through the front door and was very surprised to see me there. I called off the cop and also let the DON know her missing LPN had returned. I questioned him and he didn't hesitate to tell me that he had left to spend some time with his girlfriend and, even more shocking, admitted that he often would visit her during his shift and didn't understand what the problem was "everything was quiet".
The DON asked me to inform him he was fired and collect his badge and keys from him. She has since been in contact with the state board of nursing and is fully confident he will lose his license. I sure hope he does. I had to write a report of the discussion I had with him when he arrived back to the NH for the board.
I'm blown away that a licensed nurse would see no issue with leaving his patients for hours when there was no other nurse in the building.