Old Dog, New Tricks

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Wrongway Regional Medical Center (WRMC) has a reputation for having a high staff turnover. Recently there has been a mass exodus of staff, including a lot of RNs.

I work Psych and my wife Belinda works Med-Surge. Belinda recently noted that there were openings in Psych and Medical in our hometown at Anomaly Memorial Hospital (AMH), so we both applied. Belinda was told at her first interview that she was "a Godsend" and they couldn't wait to show me to the exit.

Belinda got and accepted the position, and I was depressed for about a half an hour when informed that the Psych position went to another candidate. I was extremely happy for Belinda, believing she will be working at a real hospital where her skills can be appreciated. She will take a slight cut in pay, but will have better benefits and a shorter commute. I was happy for myself, as I would have had had to take nearly a $10 an hour cut in pay at AMH.

I was also happy because I am generally comfortable working at WRMC. As much as AMH is a real hospital, WRMC is, in Belinda's term, a grunge hospital. I feel a certain amount of comfort in dealing with the nonsense and chaos, I feel like an eagle in a flock of turkeys.

However, if I went to AMH, I believe would feel like the turkey in a convocation of eagles and I'd have to learn new "stuff". So I'm kind of content in being a complacent stick-in-the-mud.

So- how about you old dogs- or COBs: Have you, in your golden years, began a new position in a different facility, or had to learn new tricks?

Did your transition go smoothly? Or were you like an old dog learning new tricks, where you could learn new tricks, it just took a longer amount of time than when you were younger?

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
I was born old and I love a good rut. I always have. I drove two hours to work every day for a few years because I didn't care to change. It wasn't until all my co-workers moved on that I went ahead and got a job five minutes from home. It was easy enough to change to a new place, I suppose I just don't like to change my people.

Ruts can be comfortable places to be, eh Sour Lemon?

There's enough of expecting the unexpected in our jobs to keep us stimulated.

Good Coworkers are gold and can make work not be a four letter word.

I'm happy that I don't have to change my People!

For now.

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
I can balance a biscuit on my nose while standing on my left foot and rubbing my tummy with my right hand.

Hey, hppygr8ful! You wanna come work at Wrongway with me?

There are lots of openings for People with your kind of talent and skill!

It can be a humbling experience going from job proficiency to newbie, for sure. When I made the leap from RT to RN, I'd been an RT for 17 years and I went from feeling competent/confident to feeling like I didn't know my a$$ from my elbow. It was not an anxiety free transition, that's for sure, but I'm happy with my decision to push myself outside of my comfort zone and take on the challenges of a career change at the tender age of forty-something.

Specializes in Pediatrics Retired.

Very interesting how this opportunity evolved into a mirror mirror on the wall search of self. Personally, I completely understand what you're saying. The thought of starting a new nursing job makes me nauseous. My current position pisses me off on a regular basis but it's like arguing with your wife. You know she loves you and you love her and things settle down afterward. I don't think I like learning new stuff anyway!!

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
"All I want is things to get better yet stay the same. Is that too much to ask?"

Yes. To get better is not possible without change. You have gone to ADN, ASN, CNA, LPN, RN, EMT-B, EMT-I why stop now?

I worked 15 years at Wrongway Regional Medical Center as charge nurse. I was top dog. What BTDT said was gospel. I REALLY liked that.

I liked learning new roles much more.

It seems to me, generally speaking, that Women tend to be be the hardier of the genders.

There's enough of expecting the unexpected in our jobs to keep us stimulated.

I rest on my laurels... a... er... I rest my case!

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
It can be a humbling experience going from job proficiency to newbie, for sure. When I made the leap from RT to RN, I'd been an RT for 17 years and I went from feeling competent/confident to feeling like I didn't know my a$$ from my elbow. It was not an anxiety free transition, that's for sure, but I'm happy with my decision to push myself outside of my comfort zone and take on the challenges of a career change at the tender age of forty-something.

Do you know, vanilla bean, that I virtually love you? I have all your records and have an autographed 8x10 glossy of you sitting on my workstation at Wrongway!

Belinda ran the lab for a group of Doctors, who highly respected her, for 17 years when she decided to go into Nursing. She is a legend at Wrongway. EVERYBODY said they will miss her. (Well, except Administration, but that's another story.) And now, she is leaving after 13 1/2 years to work in a higher level of care at anther facility!

Have I said ANYTHING at all about how much I admire you Movers and Shakers, for which I am not?

Do you know, vanilla bean, that I virtually love you? I have all your records and have an autographed 8x10 glossy of you sitting on my workstation at Wrongway!

:roflmao:

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
Very interesting how this opportunity evolved into a mirror mirror on the wall search of self. Personally, I completely understand what you're saying. The thought of starting a new nursing job makes me nauseous. My current position pisses me off on a regular basis but it's like arguing with your wife. You know she loves you and you love her and things settle down afterward. I don't think I like learning new stuff anyway!!

Has anybody read William Wright's Born That Way and are aware of the concept of the predisposed genetic template personality?

Mr. Wright did a study of identical twins that were separated in infancy, raised in different families, yet startlingly, as adults, possessed the exact same personality types, proving the personality is more nature than nurture.

The Old Dude and I were participants in Mr. Wright's study.

I hope you don't mind me sharing this fact... Brother.

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
:roflmao:

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Oh Davey, you are too funny!

Ruts can be comfortable places to be, eh Sour Lemon?

There's enough of expecting the unexpected in our jobs to keep us stimulated.

Good Coworkers are gold and can make work not be a four letter word.

I'm happy that I don't have to change my People!

For now.

Perhaps this is a simplistic or hedonistic world view, but I sincerely believe that people ought to do what makes them happy! If you're happy doing what you're doing, then that's awesome! If you wife will be happy trying something new, that's awesome, too! Different strokes for different folks.

People are sometimes pressured into doing things (taking a new job, attending grad school, moving into management) because they're told that they 'ought to' benefit from doing them, even if it doesn't end up working in the person's best interest. I believe that advancing your career and finding professional fulfillment is all about self assessment and discovering what brings you joy (not what other people say ought to bring you joy).

Speaking as relatively new nurse, I'm of the opinion that young pups can learn a lot of great tricks from the more 'seasoned' dogs.

Specializes in Psych (25 years), Medical (15 years).
Perhaps this is a simplistic or hedonistic world view, but I sincerely believe that people ought to do what makes them happy! If you're happy doing what you're doing, then that's awesome! If you wife will be happy trying something new, that's awesome, too! Different strokes for different folks.

People are sometimes pressured into doing things (taking a new job, attending grad school, moving into management) because they're told that they 'ought to' benefit from doing them, even if it doesn't end up working in the person's best interest. I believe that advancing your career and finding professional fulfillment is all about self assessment and discovering what brings you joy (not what other people say ought to bring you joy).

Speaking as relatively new nurse, I'm of the opinion that young pups can learn a lot of great tricks from the more 'seasoned' dogs.

Or, as my dear ol' Dad told me: "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!"

I am surprised you are a relatively new Nurse, adventure_rn. In following your posts, I sense a great deal of wisdom.

Thanks for the support!

I am surprised you are a relatively new Nurse, adventure_rn. In following your posts, I sense a great deal of wisdom.

Why thank you! I've been fortunate to learn from some incredibly wise nurses, including many of the nurses on AN.

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