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Doesn't everybody???
I used to do this more when I worked in the hospital, as I did work on a floor that dealt with more chronic type Dx. It's sort of a morbid curiosity type thing. Nurses are just more in touch with end of life issues and also more likely to articulate about it. It is really not weird at all. Just normal human curiosity.
I usually read obituaries for no good reason. I don't know how to explain this. I guess matters of life present to me as much interest as matters of death.
Sometimes obituaries are interesting - u learn about a person u've never met and wonder at all the things they've accomplished in life.
a patient of mine died 5 minutes after i walked off the floor last monday. I learned about her through the obituary.
Yep. I check the obits every day, not only to see if patients' names appear, but also because I've lived in the same town much of my life and often recognize names of family members of people with whom I went to high school or people from three different churches I've belonged to over the years.
They are printed on the bottom left corner of the front page of the paper here. I check the list quickly as I am reading the front page. If it is someone I know or have taken care of, I go right to the obit. I think it is just a side effect of our profession.
Of course, when you begin seeing people younger than yourself or the same age, it hits you personally. (At least it hits me that way, and I thankful for another healthy day!)
shannonRN, BSN, RN
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does anyone else find themselves looking in the obits for former patients? my family thinks that i am totally bizarre, please confirm that this is yet another "nursing feature!"