I lost my twins....can anyone help me? - page 4

Hi, I'm a 36 yr old mother to two teen boys. I found out I was pregnant with twins in late April....I thought I was around 8 wks when ultrasound was done, doc said 10 wks. Anyway, I was terrified,... Read More

  1. by   ?burntout
    I replied to your other post about your babies....

    Again, I'm so sorry for your loss. You did nothing wrong.....absolutely nothing. Don't listen to anyone who tried to tell you otherwise.

    Take care of yourself....take time for you to grieve for your babies: accept help from those who offer it....take one day at a time....

    I do encourage you to find a support group for those who have suffered a pregnancy/infant loss-I do not know what I would have done without my local group and the one I belong to online.

    If you need anything....please PM me....
  2. by   missmercy
    Quote from 2ndgenerationnurse
    try to give a bit of grace to those asking stupid questions.... they are searching just like you, for answers to questions that we will never find here.... but most importantly they are trying to reach out to you... but don't know what to say and so they struggle to say something;

    God holds our babies in the palm of His hands and he will bring us peace if we trust Him to let our babies know we are here waiting to hold them too. then we must go about living the way God would have us live and we will indeed see them, they are gone from here but will never be forgotten by HIM.

    God bless you and your family
    Beautifully stated!! I lost my first too -- turns out that my mother in law did too -- her comments to me were so precious -- she told me that maybe Her baby was looking out for MY baby -- showing him around heaven! So I pass this on to you -- perhaps the countless little folks in heaven are looking out for yours!

    Don't blame yourself! Pregnancies are all different and one can rarely foresee with accuracy -- the outcome. May God bless you and grant you an extra measure of comfort and grace as you grieve your loss. You'll be in my prayers!!