Hi,
I have had 2 experiences in the past week where family members have been rude and arrogant to me. Last week I had the son of a family member tell me I needed to "do more research" on his father before I showed up at his house, and just today I had the daughter of a patient ask me if I actually do "hands on" nursing or just paperwork and that the nurse that would be there this evening would do the patient's tube feeding "right." I have done thousands of tube feeds and the daughter wanted me to do it her way, which is to stand there with the tube held high, letting gravity push the feeding in. I went to push it in with the plunger (slowly!) and she said, "do you know what you are doing??" I feel so defeated and offended and not sure what I am supposed to put up with. Most patients and their family members are so nice, but these 2 have really gotten to me! I try to be the best nurse I can, and I know what I am doing, but these people made me feel like an idiot. I feel the worst because today I did not defend myself because I do not want to lose my job, but do I have to take that? Does anyone else have any horror stories about patients/families? I need to feel better before I work again! Thanks all!:angryfire