I have now has 4 consecutive (sp?) days from hell! I have an actively dying resident on my unit. She is of a very advanced age with heart problems. It is obvious to all who are caring for her that death is imminent (MD, RN, LPN, CNA, etc); however, one of her family members (the POA) keeps going on-line and coming up with her own diagnoses and tx's! Then, she insists that we follow her wishes.
I just wanted to cry on the way home from work. It has been almost a week that this resident is like this and I probably spent at least 5 hours of my 8 hour shift with her. She is using every accessory muscle to breathe at this point and her lungs are just completely full to the point that she needs suctioning every 15-20 minutes (POA wants fluids even with knowing this!)
And it also doesn't help that there is one nurse at work who keeps giving the family false hope.
I am just SO frustrated! Why is it impossible to let our loved ones die with dignity?