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If you will be taking NCLEX and would like to be prayed for, can we start a fourm for this. I know that some folks are not into prayer and I don't want to offend anyone, but I sure need it!
prayers before you take the exams
dear god,
today i will have my examinations. you know how important they are to me. so i am humbly asking your gracious help and divine assitance. i pray to you, my dear god, please neve rlet me be at ease and give my very best. please never let me guess nor rely on pure luck, but enlighten my mind and let me think clearly. please never let me resort to chances nor to dishonesty, but let me work to the fullest of my ability. i pray for your guidance that i as i think, i may find the right solutions, i may be able to correctly answer the questions, i may solve those difficult problems. i ask, o god, your intercession, that as i write, i may not be careless nor overconfident, i may not be distracted but be more concentrated, i may not be in a hurry nor take the exams too lightly. today, o my lord, i will take my examinations let me, with your help, give my best effort. let me, because of you, receive the best and fruitful results. this i pray in jesus name. amen.
hey u,thank u for the reply... i just cannot stop crying
this is such an emotional burden and im so sad.....
i don't think i could even start studying because i am so sad.
i wish the brn was not so busy and more helpful, but i feel like they were trying to ignore me.
yes this is the first time...
i studied so hard everyday, many hours.
i finished all qbank alll kaplan question trainer and read the entire book.
i lost so much confidence.
i graduated with honors and was always on the ball, and now my confidence dropped 100%.... i feel like i cannot pick myself up and i just want to see the results to stop my denial..... ;(
my mom is so dissapointed which puts so much more presuure and sadness on me,,,,....
Remember you do have to allow yourself time to grieve each time that this happens. This is normal but there will be a point that you have to forget what happened and get back on track with studying and ONLY YOU will know when this time is right. Remember also that many of us have gone through this and you are not alone. I am soooo sorry that your mother is making you feel horrible but to be honest they have NO IDEA how you have to be prepared for this exam and each time is different. Do you live with your family or do you live on your own? You need a support system right now and I believe alllnurses.com will do this for you because we all know what it is like and can relate to your situation in one way or another. Remember to try and stay away from negative people because that's the last thing you need when preparing for such an exam as this one. It takes alot of mental energy and you need it for the preparation of this exam. I do think your mom wants the best for you but is not expressing it very well through her emotions and again maybe does not know how to. Try to put in perspective that this is only a test and you will be able to take it again as much as it's hard to.
If you would like to talk more you may send me a private message and I will return it. Some of your BEST supporters will be here on allnurses.com
because we do know what your going through:redpinkhe
Debbie
hey every one,
I need word of encouragement,course I thing am going crazy to my self.Am using sounders book 4th Ed, the more I studying the more I fill empt,am stress out,and am going to for 4 time now,I fill like cry.I took two weeks off from work just to study for NCLEX and am going crazy. Pls Pls friends encourage me.I found this is only place I can came too and get the word.I need to get my streght back on track.I will truly appricient it so much.Thanks for understand me.
hey every one,I need word of encouragement,course I thing am going crazy to my self.Am using sounders book 4th Ed, the more I studying the more I fill empt,am stress out,and am going to for 4 time now,I fill like cry.I took two weeks off from work just to study for NCLEX and am going crazy. Pls Pls friends encourage me.I found this is only place I can came too and get the word.I need to get my streght back on track.I will truly appricient it so much.Thanks for understand me.
There is such a thing of overstudying, especially if you get so stressed that your studying becomes unproductive. Set a limit on the number of questions you do daily, and know that in time, your scores will improve. Once a week, don't do anything that has to do with nursing or the NCLEX. Try to spend time with non nurses or non nursing students on that day so you can truly get away from it. Good nutrition, lots of water and exercise will help you feel better. I had a habit of eating Skittles while I studied in the beginning, and I quickly quit that!
After four attempts, I'm guessing that you've done a lot of studying. Why don't you take a few weeks off from studying and relax? And then pick a new date and organize your studying accordingly.
Try your best to relax and get some rest! You can pass this thing-stay positive!:redpinkhe
yes i totally agree...suzanne told me i overstudied and also my friends which is why i failed. I also studied the night before, but just review main points. I now realized i shouldnt have done that. It may have worked for my friends that passed, but it didnt work for me and everyone is different. Cherryhugz hang in there. I wonder why you cant see if you passed or not. Go to the DOH website and check or pearsonview. I know how you feel, I found out yesterday and I was the tutor in my studygroup, and people asked me questions in nursing school, and I get to the NCLEX, and get a big fat FAIL on my report. Well, i got some words of encouragement and it is just a test. It doesnt determine if you are a failure or not. I dont think its realistic to even tell you if you are safe or not either. Its exam questions that are way too tricky because they have been reworded. In nursing, its about communication skills and if you misinterpret what the doctor says, then it your responsibility. However, on the NCLEX, its easy to misinterpret what the question is asking and you cant even clarify it; its just you either answer it right or wrong, how is that realistic? oh well, i just have to pick myself back up and take it again. It took me half a day to get over it, but I am not alone and you arent either. I got through nursing school, i can get through a silly exam
There is such a thing of overstudying, especially if you get so stressed that your studying becomes unproductive. Set a limit on the number of questions you do daily, and know that in time, your scores will improve. Once a week, don't do anything that has to do with nursing or the NCLEX. Try to spend time with non nurses or non nursing students on that day so you can truly get away from it. Good nutrition, lots of water and exercise will help you feel better. I had a habit of eating Skittles while I studied in the beginning, and I quickly quit that!After four attempts, I'm guessing that you've done a lot of studying. Why don't you take a few weeks off from studying and relax? And then pick a new date and organize your studying accordingly.
Try your best to relax and get some rest! You can pass this thing-stay positive!:redpinkhe
This help me alot, for just reply to me, you make me fill that I truly have to do samething in my studying coz am studying day and night,I realy want to pass this exem 4th time realy hurts and I dont want to go back there again and fail.That will put me in depressen.So thanks so much I truly appriceate your repond.God bless you.
yes i totally agree...suzanne told me i overstudied and also my friends which is why i failed. I also studied the night before, but just review main points. I now realized i shouldnt have done that. It may have worked for my friends that passed, but it didnt work for me and everyone is different. Cherryhugz hang in there. I wonder why you cant see if you passed or not. Go to the DOH website and check or pearsonview. I know how you feel, I found out yesterday and I was the tutor in my studygroup, and people asked me questions in nursing school, and I get to the NCLEX, and get a big fat FAIL on my report. Well, i got some words of encouragement and it is just a test. It doesnt determine if you are a failure or not. I dont think its realistic to even tell you if you are safe or not either. Its exam questions that are way too tricky because they have been reworded. In nursing, its about communication skills and if you misinterpret what the doctor says, then it your responsibility. However, on the NCLEX, its easy to misinterpret what the question is asking and you cant even clarify it; its just you either answer it right or wrong, how is that realistic? oh well, i just have to pick myself back up and take it again. It took me half a day to get over it, but I am not alone and you arent either. I got through nursing school, i can get through a silly exam
thank u so much.. i am really appreciative to have found this site.. i will soon pick myself up...
faith75
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Hi Lilpal, I am very sorry about the news. I will keep you in my prayers.
Jeremiah 29:11
"I know the plans I have for you" says the lord. "They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope".
Keep your faith, motivation and desire. You will make it through!