Where to begin? My facility is a non smoking facility. We got a resident with a newly repaired hip who hopped off the stretcher and announced he was going outside to smoke. The nurses told him we were a non smoking facility. I don't care he said so they called the doctor and got an order for him to be able to smoke. THEN they called me (the DNS)...no I said, he cannot smoke. I spoke to the charge nurse who told me that I would have to drive in to tell him because he was 6 feet tall and she wasn't going to speak to him. I couldn't believe what I was hearing. The long and short of it is, he left in a taxi to go home with a doctor's order.
What would you do about this nurse? If I were at home, I might have hopped in the car and have gone to work to calm things down, but she is being paid to be a charge nurse and it makes me angry that she should act this way.
Just as well, if you ask me, that the man left. If he was so nasty about smoking, perhaps he would have been just as nasty and non compliant around the schedule for his pain medications. Sorry for the rant!