My Crazy Month

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Over the past month my grandmother has been sick, really sick. About 7 weeks ago she started to cough. She thought it was a side effect of one of her medications, and brushed it off. The cough didn't go away, and she kept getting more tired. One night she went to bed and as she described, she started to "squeek." The following morning she went to the doctor. A chest x-ray and lab results later, she was diagnosed with pneumonia. She goes back home, and over the next week she takes the antibotics as percribed, but does not get much better. On her week follow up she goes back in, and her WBC count which had been at 20, was now up to 23. She was admitted to the local hospital.

(Little bit of back-ground on gma: slightly obese, diet controlled diabetic, recently diagnosed with advanced renal disease--found because of high potassium levels, over last couple of months have been well controlled with diet and meds--, history of MI nearly 3 yrs ago, numerous TIAs some of which have resulted in to small strokes, luckily none have affected her at all...thank the Lord){at home she is completely independent, able to do all ADL's by herself}

She was started on IV antibotics, breathing treatments, and the usual pneumonia protocal. Expected to go home in a couple of days (this is on a Tuesday). Noticed over the next few days that her feet are swelling more - so that usual. The coughing is not getting better, and her WBC's are bouncing up and down, and her renal function is slowly declining. On Sunday she is still not getting better, they do a thoracentesis and get around 480mL off of the opposite lung that she has the pneumonia on, and recieves 2 units of blood. She starts to feel better. Monday she gets worse, requests that I and my mother become her POA's because she knows that my mother and I will follow her wishes. Tuesday I get a call from her case worker (all patients in this hospital get a case worker) stating that she is being transfered to a Mercy because she has gained 5 lbs in water weight over night which is a grand total of aprox 30 pounds in one week. She has CHF, and her kidneys functions are worsening. The local doctor is unable to handle the case anymore and is sending her to the specialists up at Mercy.

GREAT.....

Arrive at Mercy on the telemetry and she is admitted under a nephrologist who is working with a pulmonolgist, infectious disease doc, and a cardiologist. The team combinds, sees her, and the plans are set into motion.

Over the next week she starts to improve, she has aquaphoresis to remove some fluid off of her because the diaretics are too hard on her kidneys, she is on IV antibotics, recieves 2 units of blood. She is seeing physical therapists to get her up and moving, and then things start to go downhill, AGAIN.

The aquaphoresis line clots off, they do ultrafiltration, great, 19 pounds of fluid off, but the problem starts with the Heprin that she was getting. Her body decided that it didn't like it, and started in on HIT (Heprin Induced Thrombocytopenia). Her platelet count is 38.

CRAP......

Do scans and x-rays and ultrasounds, to make sure she has not started to bleed out. Okay...were good. Not so fast... She spends a night, all night bleeding because her platelet count is down. After all that is done, I find out much much later that she has a blood clot in her leg.

Kidney Doc states she is okay to go home as far as he's concerned (this is last Tuesday) but the other doctors have to sign off first. Platelet count is only up to 48. Thats a no go. WBC is finally doing good, Kidney functions start to look like they might be on the mend.

Ok...so we wait for the platelets to come back up.

Monday I go in and visit her, she is lethargic, doesn't know who I am or who my mother is (gma is a/o x4, is always happy). Nurse states that she was up and went to x-ray and that she was ok this AM, and that she just had a really busy day. OK, that could explain it. Mom and I go out for a while, come back, she wakes up a little bit, but is still really sleepy, and not herself. I make a note to call and check on her before I go to bed.

Not 2 hrs later I get a call from the same nurse telling me that gma has been transfered to CCU that her BP has dropped to 70 over nothing and that she probably has sepsis, her kidney functions have declined, and that her potassium had sky rocketed.

OH ****

Now she is on continous dialasys, she is able to maintain her BP by herself without meds, her labs are starting to even out some, she is on IV antibotics, has had an additional 2 units of blood (this makes 6 units in the month that she has been in the hospital) and she is slightly starting to improve.

Problem is....

She told me last night....she is ready to go (to the Lord). I told her to give the dialasys a couple more days, and see how she feels, but she is tired of the constant battle going inside her body.

Our family has been gathering around. My mother, my three sisters, my gpa, my aunt, my uncle, and now my cousin is taking emergency medical leave from the air force to be with her.

***AND TO TOP IT OFF***

My grandpa on my dad's side (parents are divorced and not talking) is going to probably have his foot amputated here in the next day or two due to infection secondary to diabetes... he has been fighting the infection for two months, hospitalized a couple of days ago, and now this news...

I could really use some support now.

Thanks in advance for all your posts.

Over the past month my grandmother has been sick, really sick. About 7 weeks ago she started to cough. She thought it was a side effect of one of her medications, and brushed it off. The cough didn't go away, and she kept getting more tired. One night she went to bed and as she described, she started to "squeek." The following morning she went to the doctor. A chest x-ray and lab results later, she was diagnosed with pneumonia. She goes back home, and over the next week she takes the antibotics as percribed, but does not get much better. On her week follow up she goes back in, and her WBC count which had been at 20, was now up to 23. She was admitted to the local hospital.

(Little bit of back-ground on gma: slightly obese, diet controlled diabetic, recently diagnosed with advanced renal disease--found because of high potassium levels, over last couple of months have been well controlled with diet and meds--, history of MI nearly 3 yrs ago, numerous TIAs some of which have resulted in to small strokes, luckily none have affected her at all...thank the Lord){at home she is completely independent, able to do all ADL's by herself}

She was started on IV antibotics, breathing treatments, and the usual pneumonia protocal. Expected to go home in a couple of days (this is on a Tuesday). Noticed over the next few days that her feet are swelling more - so that usual. The coughing is not getting better, and her WBC's are bouncing up and down, and her renal function is slowly declining. On Sunday she is still not getting better, they do a thoracentesis and get around 480mL off of the opposite lung that she has the pneumonia on, and recieves 2 units of blood. She starts to feel better. Monday she gets worse, requests that I and my mother become her POA's because she knows that my mother and I will follow her wishes. Tuesday I get a call from her case worker (all patients in this hospital get a case worker) stating that she is being transfered to a Mercy because she has gained 5 lbs in water weight over night which is a grand total of aprox 30 pounds in one week. She has CHF, and her kidneys functions are worsening. The local doctor is unable to handle the case anymore and is sending her to the specialists up at Mercy.

GREAT.....

Arrive at Mercy on the telemetry and she is admitted under a nephrologist who is working with a pulmonolgist, infectious disease doc, and a cardiologist. The team combinds, sees her, and the plans are set into motion.

Over the next week she starts to improve, she has aquaphoresis to remove some fluid off of her because the diaretics are too hard on her kidneys, she is on IV antibotics, recieves 2 units of blood. She is seeing physical therapists to get her up and moving, and then things start to go downhill, AGAIN.

The aquaphoresis line clots off, they do ultrafiltration, great, 19 pounds of fluid off, but the problem starts with the Heprin that she was getting. Her body decided that it didn't like it, and started in on HIT (Heprin Induced Thrombocytopenia). Her platelet count is 38.

CRAP......

Do scans and x-rays and ultrasounds, to make sure she has not started to bleed out. Okay...were good. Not so fast... She spends a night, all night bleeding because her platelet count is down. After all that is done, I find out much much later that she has a blood clot in her leg.

Kidney Doc states she is okay to go home as far as he's concerned (this is last Tuesday) but the other doctors have to sign off first. Platelet count is only up to 48. Thats a no go. WBC is finally doing good, Kidney functions start to look like they might be on the mend.

Ok...so we wait for the platelets to come back up.

Monday I go in and visit her, she is lethargic, doesn't know who I am or who my mother is (gma is a/o x4, is always happy). Nurse states that she was up and went to x-ray and that she was ok this AM, and that she just had a really busy day. OK, that could explain it. Mom and I go out for a while, come back, she wakes up a little bit, but is still really sleepy, and not herself. I make a note to call and check on her before I go to bed.

Not 2 hrs later I get a call from the same nurse telling me that gma has been transfered to CCU that her BP has dropped to 70 over nothing and that she probably has sepsis, her kidney functions have declined, and that her potassium had sky rocketed.

OH F***

Now she is on continous dialasys, she is able to maintain her BP by herself without meds, her labs are starting to even out some, she is on IV antibotics, has had an additional 2 units of blood (this makes 6 units in the month that she has been in the hospital) and she is slightly starting to improve.

Problem is....

She told me last night....she is ready to go (to the Lord). I told her to give the dialasys a couple more days, and see how she feels, but she is tired of the constant battle going inside her body.

Our family has been gathering around. My mother, my three sisters, my gpa, my aunt, my uncle, and now my cousin is taking emergency medical leave from the air force to be with her.

***AND TO TOP IT OFF***

My grandpa on my dad's side (parents are divorced and not talking) is going to probably have his foot amputated here in the next day or two due to infection secondary to diabetes... he has been fighting the infection for two months, hospitalized a couple of days ago, and now this news...

I could really use some support now.

Thanks in advance for all your posts.

Bless your heart. It is very hard when our loved ones are ill and we can't make everything better. Be supportive when you are there and honor her wishes. It is hard being a nurse when a reletive is ill. We cannot function like a nurse. We are the grandaughter or the daughter. I am hoping the best for you. do what helps you in these times. If that is prayer and having people pray for you and your family do that. If it helps to have the clergy at the hospital include you in the prayers do that. It sounds as if the chf is worsening and the low platelets can even be part of the infection. Have they called it DIC? I commend you for standing by and trying to give your family the best advice. Remember we are not all seeing and all knowing. Stay strong and take care of yourself in these hard times. :heartbeat

Specializes in Psychiatrics.

Then news just came in....

My gpa...the one who is in the hosptial for the foot (toe) infection has osteomyleitis. He is going to have his leg amputated just below the knee on Tuesday or Wednesday. He was released from the hospital today so that he could have a "going away party" for his leg tomorrow. All of my cousins, aunts and uncles will be there. He is in decent spirts. The family have all chipped in and the renovenations to the house will soon be underway so that the house will be wheelchair accessable.

So again... Thanks in advance for all of your prayers and posts.....

Elizabeth

Specializes in Psychiatrics.

Welllllll......

More news....some good....some bad....

On the gma front....she is doing much much much better. She has been getting regular dialasis, but overall she is doing better. Our only issues are her inability to maintain a stable weight (all water weight gain), critical PT/INR due to a heprin alternative that I can't prenounce that she been recieving, and the critical platelets, from her previous bout of HIT. She is working with physical therapy and she is getting stronger as the days go by.

Now comes my bad news.

I am in a surgery waiting room as my gpa has just been taken in to have his left leg amputated below the knee.

Gpa, family and I have all accepted this, it is for the best. I have seen the toe which is the cause of the issue (infection that would not get better despite every antibotic known to man thrown at it, the best wound care possible, and IV antibotics)(his blood flow to his lower leg is practially non-existant). My problem is that the surgeron stated as he wheeled gpa in "This should have been an emergency surgery."

My issue is that my gma and gpa have done everything that the doctors have said. My gma has been questioning over the past week, "when is this going to become an emergency surgery?"

This is just a slight vent. He is in surgery right now, and he is in the hands of the surgeron, and in the hands of God.

Posts and Prayers are welcome.

prayers for you and your family, elizabeth.

more prayers and good thought go out to you and your grandparents and family. jonesecho

Specializes in Psychiatrics.

MORE BAD NEWS:

I am waiting in waiting room of CCU. Gpa has had a heart attack and is not expected to make it 48 hrs. My family has gathered around to say their good byes. His defibulator has been turned off. The surgery went well, and he was doing good until around 11am when he started having chest pain. He is in the hands of God now.

please take care of yourself and your family, grandpa would want you to do well. thoughts are with you. jonesecho

Specializes in CVICU.

Wow you have been more this month than most people go through in years. You guys are definitely in my thoughts and prayers.

oh no. you and your family are being hit so hard right now.

you must be absolutely emotionally and physically exhausted.

((((elizabeth)))) holding you in my thoughts and prayers.

praying for your grandfather's passing to be peaceful.

Specializes in Psychiatrics.

Gpa died about 515 this am. I wasn't there, but I believe he went peacefully. He is in a better place and is no longer suffering.

Sorry for you loss...:redpinkhe:icon_hug: my prayers are with you and your family

Specializes in all things maternity.

Elizabeth,

I just got caught up with your thread and I am so sorry about your grandpa. I pray that he was comfortable and passed peacefully.

Please remember that this has been a terribly stressful time for you and you have to take special care of yourself. Don't let yourself get sick.

Sending prayers for your family at this time. I am glad that your grandma is showing some improvement.

Continue to keep us updated.

Love to you!!!!!:redbeathe

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