Job Hopping

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So I'm about to finish orientation on an Oncology floor and I got an email yesterday about a job out in Colorado, asking if I was interested in an interview. (I had inquired about 2 years ago out of curiosity because it's so beautiful out there). I'm not sure what to do because I'm not 100% sure that there's anything keeping me here in New York anymore. I really need a sign. Thoughts?

After a lengthy discussion with one of the most influential men in my life (my dad), whom I trust completely, I'm staying. Not for my job so much, but for my wife. He grabbed me by the shoulders and looked me straight in my eyes and said son, "This is truly an amazing woman and you love her. FIGHT for her. Don't you dare give up on her!" I'll fight for all I'm worth until there's no more fight left in me. I don't care who wants to poke fun of me on here, but I love her UNCONDITIONALLY and will NOT bail without a fight. End of that discussion. I do appreciate the encouraging feedback.

After a lengthy discussion with one of the most influential men in my life (my dad), whom I trust completely, I'm staying. Not for my job so much, but for my wife. He grabbed me by the shoulders and looked me straight in my eyes and said son, "This is truly an amazing woman and you love her. FIGHT for her. Don't you dare give up on her!" I'll fight for all I'm worth until there's no more fight left in me. I don't care who wants to poke fun of me on here, but I love her UNCONDITIONALLY and will NOT bail without a fight. End of that discussion. I do appreciate the encouraging feedback.

Be aware that some women can feel very smothered and turned off by this type of "FIGHT" for them. Depending on her personality, you could end up pushing her further away.

To PinayUSA, thanks for the advice, but nah...she was the one. I've decided to just take a trip away from things and go visit my granddaughter...

Please disregard any and all of PinayUSA's comments. He is either a troll or a misogynist or both. He just tries to get a rise out of posters here. He must be bored most of the time.

Liked that, did ya? Not to worry, PinayUSA's ignorant comments are like buses and another one should come along shortly.

Best comment of the day!

Specializes in Family Nurse Practitioner.
Don't worry woman are like buses, if you miss one another one will come along shortly

Good Luck.......

Well aren't you sexist....

I don't flock to men.

I am NOT the same person as the woman sitting next to me.

And I have a fulfilled life so I don't have to make provocative statements like this one on a site full of female members.

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