Is it possible to do this with a child?

jeckrn, BSN, RN · May 15, 2012

Yes, but it can be diffucult, even more diffucult then being a single mom in nursing school.

Trauma Columnist · May 15, 2012

Agree - better have a GREAT, COMPLETE 24/7 DAYCARE plan in place PRIOR to going in.

We were dual military and it was very very rough!

ckh23, BSN, RN · May 19, 2012

I think your biggest hurdle is going to be her father. If he isn't on board he can make it very difficult for you to leave and take your daughter.

rndiver82 · May 20, 2012

I will echo their answers and add one other thing: with competition for positions getting as tough as they are, the child care waiver may be a hit against you. Unless you have multiple redundancies in place. For example, I am trying for he AF, an my first application was denied. The only reason we can think that I did not get picked is that I was a single parent on paper (I was not married at the time of my last application, but am now). Now, it's not to say that was the only reason, and they would not take you, but it may be more difficult for you. Unles you did an ROTC-type of program where you just go in after graduation, but I've been hearing those programs have either a waitin list, or at getting cut due to budget issues.You can always try and I would encourage you to because the benefits that are available will never be matched in the civilian world.

ATLRN0828 · May 20, 2012

hi dcw132003,

i had asked this same questions a few months back and got some really good feedback by current single parents that are in the air force. here is the thread just in case you want to look at it: "af applicant wanting feedback...need advice." you can search for the thread and it may provide you with some more insight. i had no problem getting a waiver during the application process. i would definitely say weigh the pros and cons of you joining and what your goals are. if the pros outweigh the cons for you and your family, then maybe you should apply. there's nothing wrong with trying if this is what you want to do. good luck! i know it is a hard decision.

heirn13 · Jun 15, 2012

I think you need to decide if this is something that you really want to do. It will be difficult, as everyone has stated, with some obstacles that you wouldn't find in the civilian world. This was the one thing that really held me back for a while, but I decided that if others could do it than so could I. And now I am an AF nurse!! You just need to think about what you want and then go for that. Good luck in everything. I know this is a tough decision but you will make the right one!