I do not know what has changed in recent months. I have always had a love-hate relationship with my job. I’ve always had a little bit of anxiety going in to work, expending the unexpected.
Recently though this has taken a turn for the worse. My sleep is in ruins. I keep waking up, I only sleep 4-5 hours of interrupted sleep.
My eating habits have worsened. I rely heavily on food for comfort, and it’s taking a toll on my physical health, further deteriorating my emotional state.
I am constantly anxious and on-guard at work. Either I’ve come to realize how truly easy it is to commit a mistake, or I’ve become obsessed with making sure I do everything as perfect as possible.
I cannot stand my manager. I cannot fathom him. He is all about the numbers, and picks favorites. Our unit is always the one that is floating and staffing for other units, other units have it easy. Other units don’t struggle the way we do to take time off. Our manager doesn’t approve time off until a few days or a week before the new schedule comes out, and he almost always tries to find a way to cancel your time off.
Then we get stuck covering other units and their time off because we are all staffed to work the unit.
We are self scheduled but I’m so over the schedule not coming out until the weekend before the schedule rolls out! That’s ridiculous. I am also constantly moved around and my work days changed.
I have so much resentment, anger, and an anxiety.
I keep fantasizing about quitting but then I hear how much more bad other hospitals have it with tippled ICU assignments and it scares me because the max right now we get in the ICU is 2:1 for all ICU assignments unless they are an impella.
I am just so tired of the culture of bullies and back talk. Some nurses on days thinking they know everything and yet they are the ones that make the most mistakes. They are the bosses pet and I’m so sick of it. I’m also sick of covering for other units and being the b**** ICU of the hospital.
I don’t know what to do. I’m so sad. I’m so angry. I’m so anxious. I need OUT!!! But I am also scared.
I will be vested very soon, meaning their retirement contribution I will get to keep.
I should have my BSN in August 2020.
Right now I’m an RN, CCRN with five years experience.