Hello,
I've been a CNA for 8 years. I've been recognized and awarded for outstanding patient care 6 times. I don't say this to boast, I just say it to establish the fact that I am a good aide. So when I ask a nurse for help, it's not because I'm a slacker, it's because I'm desperate.
My facility, like many others, is chronically short staffed. This past four months, we have experienced the worst staffing crisis I have ever seen in my entire time as a nurse aide. The current ratio on the evening shift, on average, is 26 total assist residents per aide. Several nights a week, I take both halls for several hours before I get another staff member with me. This means answering lights and toileting for over 50 residents. LTC residents on the DEMENTIA ward.
I run. All. Night. Long. I almost cried when my HR lady told me that she was reviewing the security camera for an unrelated-to-me matter when she saw me, buzzing in and out of rooms - she thanked me for working so hard. I was so happy that someone had noticed.
My primary nurses do not lift a finger to help. Last night, I couldn't believe it when I saw one of them actually answer a call bell. I thought to myself, "Thank God, maybe she's changed her attitude and is going to help me!" Then she came and told me that the lady had to go to the bathroom. She then went back to the nurses station and ate some doritos.
When I told my two nurses how overwhelmed I feel, that it is physically impossible for me to follow resident care plans, and asked how in god's name I'm supposed to do two assists with no other aides, I was told exactly this: "When I was an aide, I had way more residents to do than that. It's not even that bad." When I asked if they could help me, I was told, "I can do your job, you can't do mine." I went to my supervisor who literally shrugged his shoulders and WALKED AWAY.
I've been at this facility for over two years. I get free health care, four weeks vacation which is basically unheard of for a CNA, and the other primary aides I work with need me. They really do need me. I cannot leave them, and I won't, so please don't reply with responses like, "you need to get out of there." Yeah, not happening. My loyalty is to my two other CNA's who have stuck with me through thick and thin.
My question is this: Why won't the nurses help me when my situation is so desperate I have resident family members asking me if there's any way they can help? (I know, it's crazy - I work at a magically facility where the family members are all understanding and aren't constantly yelling at me for not answering lights fast enough. Seriously, I'm not joking - I'm very fortunate when it comes to this). Why won't my nurses help me when they see me run, see me visibly sweating through my scrubs, see the fact that I'm being forced to break care plan / the LAW with these two assists?