As the title states, how do you know when it's time to throw in the towel? Especially if you are nowhere near retirement age?
A little history: I am currently being treated for an autoimmune process that has yet to be named. I am being treated with a drug most often prescribed for SLE, Sjogren's, and/or RA. The symptoms I experience are debilitating, and wax/wane with the wind.
That being said, I have "tried" to quit nursing twice now, only to end up going back for the money and ability to work a reduced schedule as I can't for the life of me maintain a 40 hr workweek. I only work e/o weekend because of the cognitive/physical issues I experience. Even that has become a challenge.
Physical issues aside, the issue that scares me the most is the cognitive dysfunction. I have questioned my ability to make prudent nursing decisions and question whether or not I am truly safe to practice. There are times I seem to be unable to process or sequence thoughts/activities and often have trouble with recall and finding words. Fortunately, no one has been harmed (to my knowledge.)
I guess I have answered my own question. I know in my gut that I should take an extended leave of absence at the least. I also know that it is probably dangerous and morally/ethically wrong to put others in harms way by continuing to accept assignments knowing that I am not consistently cognitively intact.
So, for the foreseeable future, I am throwing in the proverbial towel. It hurts. It's defeating. It's demoralizing. Gonna cry now.
Thank you for reading.