Published Feb 17, 2014
Brian, ASN, RN
3 Articles; 3,695 Posts
There are some people who want to be a nurse and then there are those who REALLY want to be a nurse. Which are you? Why do you REALLY want it? Please share why and what (if anything) are you doing differently from others to get there. Any tips are welcomed.
nursefrances, BSN, RN
1 Article; 601 Posts
I was thinking back to a time when I was still at the junior college doing pre-reqs. I took anatomy and physics one summer. Classes were Monday-Thursday. I had physics from 8am-12pm then anatomy from 1-5pm. Then I would go home and read then do it again the next day.
My poor family never saw me. I was so dedicated that summer. I wanted "A"s so bad and I worked really hard. I did end up getting "A"s in both classes. After the fact I didn't need physics (I changed schools before applying to a program). But I am still glad I took it.
Just before starting the nursing program I think I was little cocky. I thought, "Yeah, maybe I will do a minor in nutrition too. It's only a few extra classes." Then as I took a few nursing classes I realized it got harder and harder. I didn't choose a minor after all.
NeoNatMom
1 Article; 676 Posts
I was a child who had 0 clue as to what I was going to become. I never gave it much thought until I met my husband (my then boyfriend). I kinda jumped from one trend or obsession to the next. I still do that with hobbies because I try to find something outside of my studies to keep me connected to the outside world. Unfortunately, my school still takes over to the point where I quit whatever else I want to enjoy. Back to when I didn't know where I was going in life.... I would have to say that I new I was good with people when I began working at my first job at Chick-fil-A. There focus was to constantly make our guests have an extraordinary experience when they enter our restaurant. We are all about making connections with people, putting a smile on their faces, an going the extra mile. I was able to do this naturally. I later got another Chick-fil-A position. This time I was hired for the purpose of socializing with guests and leaving a long lasting impression of the company that draws guest to come back again in the future. I started thinking about a job in the medical field when I was about 20 years old. My sister-in-law wanted to be a surgeon and explained to me what it was all about. I was drawn to the way the body works and wanted in on the action. I slowly transitioned to wanting to be a nurse because of the ample opportunities there are in the field of nursing. One of my good friends who is a nurse also broadened my thoughts and opened my mind to the option. I eventually decided that since I wanted to love a life where I was helping people directly, and still be able to be home for dinner, the nursing was the path for me. I have been counting down the days when I get into my program and I hope that all of you prospective and current nurses are as fulfilled as possible. Happy Nursing everyone!
nursepenelope
90 Posts
I have wanted to be a nurse since I was 12yo. I was dx. With spinal minegitis, pna, and numerousvother ailments. I was hospitalized for three months also eith 23 brain abscessses. I had a 5% chance of living. Through thevgrace of Gid I survived.ni remember walking out of ICSF telling my mom I was going to be a nurse one day. I had several friendsvehen I got older who I coached through their labors. I knew then I wanted to be an l&d nurse. My life took a turn. Got pregnant at 17. Dropped out ofv school. Got married at 19 and had 3more kids. I waited untilb they were all in school and I went for. Started my prereqs...took me five years but I did it with an a avereage. I made it into a private nursing school..very expensive needless to say..but I was told about the nursing shortage and hospitals were helping new grads to pay back their loans..lol. by the time I graduated..hospitals stopped hiring New grads. But I wanted to be a nurse so bad...my personal goal and dream had come to fruitio...with a lot of hard work..and good grades I might add. For a mom with 4kids..3of them teens giving me a run for my money...I made it. Graduating was one of my happiest and proudest moments. Did I want to be a nurse? Or did I really want to be a nurse? I've worked continued to work my butt off...not in l&d..but I am always so happy when I've madeca difference in somones life. I still want to be in l&d or even postpardum..I've recently gotten really sick myself and have had to take time off. I almost died twice in December and January. And have battled with major depression and anxiety...partly personal family problems...work related and unhappy that I'm not where I want to be professionally. But throu all of this crud I have realized that God has a plan for my life. I'm still here and no matter where I am in nursing "it is what I really want to be".
Sorry for the typing error above...I'm not quite sure how to go up and down and save...I didn't want to end up deleting it by accident...so I just posted..lol
The last thing Iwanted to say is I really wish I would get the chance to work in the area ive worked so hard for...I just need someone to give me a chance and let me prove myself. I still have so much to learn and I want it soso bad. I know..there's a lot of out there and they are younger and I suppose morse along the lines of what nurse manage rs are looking for.
NurseGirl525, ASN, RN
3,663 Posts
This is my ultimate goal- to be a nurse. I have done everything else I have really wanted to accomplish in life. I am a mom to a wonderful 8 year old boy, he is happy and healthy, I have a home that I own, and a car that I own. I am taking the trip of a lifetime to Hawaii this summer, and I now have a wonderful man in my life. Becoming a nurse is going to be the icing on the cake of a wonderful, fulfilling life for me.
missmollie, ADN, BSN, RN
869 Posts
This pretty much sums up my weekend before a med-surg test.
MrKP
10 Posts
I am a 45 yr old male who has been in the legal field for 17 years. I have decided to return to school and become a Psychiatric Nurse. At 45 this journey is just beginning and I am very excited. Hopefully, I will get through my prerequisites with a bit of ease and then get my BSN before getting my Masters in Psychiatric Nursing.
explorereb96, ADN, BSN
145 Posts
25 years ago I wanted to be a computer technician. Yep, there I said it. I went to a tech school and graduated in a year. I even had a job in the field. Oh god, how I hated it. It was just, I don't know how to explain, but though i knew plenty and did the job itself well, it just wasn't me. I decided on Nursing School. I never thought much about it, you know, becoming a nurse. But there I was, enrolled in the Practical Nursing Program. I LOVE LOVE LOVED it! People who knew me couldn't believe it either. No one EVER thought of me as a nurse before that. Now they can't think of me as anything else. I loved nursing so much that at age 47 I am finally going back for my BSN.
nallanu
1 Post
Why am I being a nurse?! Simple reason: my mom showed my how amazing this job is.. In my schooltime I made some work experiences as a nurse (it's obligation in germany) and oh my god I loved it sooooo much..
After a "German high school graduation" called Fachhochschulreife I started my career to become a nurse in a Psychatry :)
you could chose your "University"(Krankenpflegeschule) for theroy and a Hospital who is a Partner from the University to learn the practice..
In this Moment (ok 2 weeks ago) I passend my intermediate exam and I can say/write that this is the thing I would do my whole life
Sorry for my horrible English.. I spoke/wrote it 2-3years ago the last time
jamiee13
16 Posts
I have always wanted to be a nurse for as long as I can remember. I graduated high school and took a year off. I got a job working in an accounting firm and they offered to pay for my tuition to go to school for accounting. I took them up on the offer, but couldn't even last a year. I HATED accounting. I dropped out of college and a few years later I have birth to my son. The hospital experience I had was amazing and it made me realize this IS what I was meant to do. The next fall I enrolled to start taking my prerequisite classes for Nursing. That was 2.5 years ago and after being on a wait lost for two years I'm finally starting my nursing program March 31st! I'm so happy it's finally here it brings me to tears. I know these tears of happiness will soon turn to frustration And my social life will be non- existent for the next year but it will be worth it!
Peacelove889
53 Posts
I've wanted to be a Nurse since Highschool. I also made a special promise to an elderly Jewish lady where I volunteered at. She had a very bad stroke years ago due to a medication mistake and it ruined her life. She wanted more than anything to follow my dream and become a Nurse. I've had my challenges with doing Nursing but I never gave up and now I'm finally starting. It may have taken longer than 4 years but it was worth it because this profession means a lot to me and I'm determined to learn and help my patients. I also want to have a specialty in Hospice and Palliative care. The hard work in the end will be worth it! :)