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I have to say this. I completely feel the thanklessness a lot. I totally get the cynical feeling we all have at times. But ladies and guys, if we really feel this way most of the time, why do what we do? Why be nurses? I think that our patients, our families and ourselves are much better served by getting out of the field if we feel this way. I tell my family and friends that if I won the lottery tonight, I would still be a nurse. I LOVE BEING A NURSE. I hope we all feel this way, or honestly, we shouldn't be doing it. I hope this doesn't offend anyone, but rather make us all evaluate. Are we really unhappy about our jobs most of the time? Or are we rather more like what I feel; love my job, but sure do have moments like, "Are you seriously making me work this short-staffed?" and "Gee, sir, I know your toe hurts at a "10" but my patient in the next room is actively dying of pancreatic cancer, and pretending he's not in horrifying pain". These moments are way behind the moments where a family member who just lost a loved one gives me a hug and thanks me for caring for them with grace and dignity.
...Are we really unhappy about our jobs most of the time? Or are we rather more like what I feel; love my job, but sure do have moments like, "Are you seriously making me work this short-staffed?" and "Gee, sir, I know your toe hurts at a "10" but my patient in the next room is actively dying of pancreatic cancer, and pretending he's not in horrifying pain". These moments are way behind the moments where a family member who just lost a loved one gives me a hug and thanks me for caring for them with grace and dignity.
I see your point and I think most nurses smell what you're stepping in.... IOW, we do love being nurses/our jobs in spite of the shortcomings. As nurses, we do get moments with our patients/residents/families that touch us. Those moments carry us through the times when we're required to check off on proper hand washing or have to do an inservice on our day off etc... It's good to vent, though. Nurses' week is something our employers do for us but the ppl we care for don't confine it to one week of the year.
Having said that, keep your travel mug handy. You might need it when your HCAPS scores bottom out and you're to blame!
s-whnp, NP
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oh wait... that's every week.
Nonetheless, bless us all and all we do (: