Please help - I work on a unit that provides care to a lot of drug-seeking patients. I know I am a softie and tend to give in to the drama, giving them what they want (as long as it is safe/ordered/etc). Many times I can see that they are playing with me (one minute screaming, the next calm as can be [mere moments after their pain meds that they asked for by name are given to them]). I want to be a good nurse, control my patients pain/nausea, but I don't appreciate being played either. Where is the line? I don't want to get into trouble for not controlling pain, but I don't want to be an overquallified drug supplier either. How do I lay down the law, so to speak, and provide tough love when dealing with these patients?
Please help - I work on a unit that provides care to a lot of drug-seeking patients. I know I am a softie and tend to give in to the drama, giving them what they want (as long as it is safe/ordered/etc). Many times I can see that they are playing with me (one minute screaming, the next calm as can be [mere moments after their pain meds that they asked for by name are given to them]). I want to be a good nurse, control my patients pain/nausea, but I don't appreciate being played either. Where is the line? I don't want to get into trouble for not controlling pain, but I don't want to be an overquallified drug supplier either. How do I lay down the law, so to speak, and provide tough love when dealing with these patients?