got fired/got hired, but confidence shaken

Nurses General Nursing

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So, I'm going to throw this out there.

Despite a spotless career and being well regarded in my field, I didn't read the signs of a manager who was targeting me + skittish HR and was fired. Nothing to do with patient care or interpersonal skills, I was basically written up over not following policy. Things that were not a big deal. Instead of realizing a paper trail was being started I thought I was doing the grown up thing by taking responsibility for my actions, apologizing, and making sure I never did it again. Unfortunately these admin things were so little/picky it was only a matter of time. I live in a right to work state so there is no protection or appeal. The experience of getting fired itself was quite traumatic. It was the whole 9 yards, get your stuff now and turn in your badge. Especially because I didn't see it coming.

The happy ending is that I found a new job in my field after only a few days. I have a strong professional network. When I let others know what happened they were shocked and thought it was a gross overreaction. I did some stressing over how to explain it at interviews but literally no one cared. I start my new job very soon... although I don't recommend getting fired, I honestly feel it worked out for the best.

The whole turn around for this has been very fast. I'm an NP so I'm brushing up on every guideline I can think of, but I realize I'm having a confidence issue. Fear that I won't meet expectations or will be fired again. Fear that I won't learn the new job fast enough to get up to speed.

Has anyone gone through this? Do you have any advice for me as I start anew?

Specializes in Med surg, LTC, Administration.

Wow, every post on this thread, filled with compassion and so much wisdom. Most coming from nurses who were fired...speaks volumes...

Ruth,

Thank you for the message. For some reason I cannot PM. But keep me posted or just vent anytime!

Just wanted to update all of you. I started my new job and so far it has been going great. Everyone is so nice, the other providers I work with are patient, good humored and supportive. I can't see this place as one that fires people.

It is so delightful to feel valued at work and experience success. For example today I was seeing patients with an MD and I got a pap on a patient who said her cervix was difficult to find. Victory! I'm sure I'll have my share of challenges, and difficult days, but being fired feels more like a bad dream now than something that affects how I see myself in the workplace. I don't think I realized how much my old workplace was dysfunctional in a soul-sucking sort of way.

Glad I am out of there! Thanks again everyone for your help and support, there IS life (and maybe even a better life) after being fired!

Excellent news, VivaRN! I'm so glad you have found a good place to be. I hope every little thing will keep going your way!

I'm still pounding the pavement, myself. Market is really tight here. I may try my luck with some travel nursing.

Excellent news, VivaRN! I'm so glad you have found a good place to be. I hope every little thing will keep going your way!

I'm still pounding the pavement, myself. Market is really tight here. I may try my luck with some travel nursing.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Are you getting interviews?

Thanks for the positive comment. It is hard to stay positive but your post gives me hope. Thanks!

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