MALE nurses

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Why is it that whenever someone tells a story about a nurse, who happened to be a man (or a man, who happens to be a nurse), they always say "He's a MALE nurse" (and they always put emphasis on MALE)?

"Yeah, so I was talking to my brother-in-law the other day - he's a MALE nurse - and he was telling me about his great health insurance."

These are always in conversations where his profession is only tangentially related to the conversation, and his gender is not at all related to the conversation (and is completely obvious when you continually refer to him as HE!!).

It's almost like there are two classifications: nurses, and Malenurses (like it's one word).

The only other time I've noticed that people feel the need to put the gender in front of the profession is when they're talking about prostitutes. MALE prostitutes, as opposed to run-of-the-mill female prostitutes.

So what's up with that?

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

I agree, this entire PC thing has gone to the point of ridiculous.

Specializes in Geriatrics.

What I hate about this classification stuff is when certain scholarships will only give you a scholarship if you're a certain nationality. Now, if you want to go into the whole classification thing, I'm considered Hispanic (go figure, my last name is Fernandez :chuckle )because my maternal Grandmother is Colombian and my paternal Grandfather's parents were Spanish. I don't speak Spanish (not well at least! :rotfl: ) and I don't really think I should be labeled as anything but what I feel like -- American. But colleges are expensive, and you have to take money where it comes from. It just burns me up, though, that I would just get money because of my ethnic background -- I didn't make it that way after all... :angryfire

Sorry, just ranting. No one else I talk to (including my parents) understand why I hate it that they insist I apply for those kinds of scholarships. I prefer those that rest on merit.

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.
What I hate about this classification stuff is when certain scholarships will only give you a scholarship if you're a certain nationality.

Me too.

Specializes in Pediatrics.
that is true!!! i am not hispanic, i am caucasian. however, my husband is hispanic, so therefore my last name is garcia. i have had people say "funny, you do not look mexican." or " garcia; isn't that a mexican name?"

goes to show you how stupid people are. maybe you don't advertise that you are married, but hello- don't people ever think of that when it's a woman??? my first husband had a blatantly obvious jewish last name (as did i for 2 yrs :chuckle ). you don't know how many people assumed i was jewish. they would say, but that's a jewish name!!! funny thing is, he would not admit to his judaism (?sp). he was not religious at all, and it would burn him up when people 'accused' him of being jewish (you don't have to be what your parents are). funny thing is, my current (and last :chuckle ) husband is 3/4 jewish. the 1/4 non-jew is his paternal grandfather, therefore, no jewish name this time!!

my best friend has the opposite as me now. her hubby has a tiny inkling of jew in him (maybe a great grandparent?) but its on the paternal side. he and his father were raised catholic. so she's stuck with a jewish last name, and goes through what i did in my first marriage!!

excellent example. we have taken it to the point of ridiculous, and we are soooo afraid of offending or 'mislabeling' others.

while we're on the subject, i have no problem being referred to as 'white'. where do caucasians come from anyway, the isle of caucasia?? seriously, what is the origin of that word?

i prefer honky

I prefer Honky

Cracker is acceptable as well. But only fellow crackers can call me that, otherwise I get quite offended :-)

When people try to use the MALE nurse label with me I simply tell them that I went to nursing school, did the same classes and clinicals and took the same test for licensure as all the ladies in my class. I did not go to male nursing school or take any special classes to differentiate me. I am a nurse point blank and simple.

My son (who is 14) seems to havwe quite an interest in medicine and nursing. He is always asking me questions, etc. I am a nurse and he is well aware how much I love what I do.

From you guys out there......is there anything (from a guy's perspective) that I can do or say that might sway him more towards nursing? I have done all of the usual talking about the differences in medicine and nursing, nursing is not just for women, yada,yada,yada.... and I would like to arm him with as much good information as I can. I think men is nursing have an edge sometime, that women do not. I ahve tried to show him how much in demand he woud be if he were a man and had a masters as well. We nurses can write our own ticket in this day and age and I am hoping he will take advantage of that and not be undermined by the usual "men should not be nurses" mentality.

By the way, I LOVE the comment about "male nursing school." That was so funny!! Started my day off with a good laugh.

If you men out thre can throw me any thoughts about this, my e-mail is [email protected]. Thanks so much.

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My son (who is 14) seems to havwe quite an interest in medicine and nursing. He is always asking me questions, etc. I am a nurse and he is well aware how much I love what I do.

From you guys out there......is there anything (from a guy's perspective) that I can do or say that might sway him more towards nursing? I have done all of the usual talking about the differences in medicine and nursing, nursing is not just for women, yada,yada,yada.... and I would like to arm him with as much good information as I can. I think men is nursing have an edge sometime, that women do not. I ahve tried to show him how much in demand he woud be if he were a man and had a masters as well. We nurses can write our own ticket in this day and age and I am hoping he will take advantage of that and not be undermined by the usual "men should not be nurses" mentality.

By the way, I LOVE the comment about "male nursing school." That was so funny!! Started my day off with a good laugh.

If you men out thre can throw me any thoughts about this, my e-mail is [email protected]. Thanks so much.

I also have 2 sons, ages 13 and 14. The older son has been asking me a lot of questions about nursing and about what a CRNA does. He says that he is not interested in working directly with the patient and would be fine just "putting them to sleep." I am not sure he has the nurturing characteristics to be a nurse, but who knows, things change.

As far as advice ... here are several things that I have told my son:

1. Portability - you are never stuck ina job or in a state ... there are opportunities for traveliung everywhere!

2. Security - there will always be people in need of care and therefore there will be nurses ....

3. Financial security - the ability to earn a decent wage and have some reasonable financial stability as you grow up.

4. Professional respect - I really believe that as nurses become more educated and move more into advance practice that nursing and medicine will begin to develop a much higher level of collaboration ... by the time these kids get through nursing school, hopefully that change will be apparent.

5. Self-Respect ... will this is intangible ... nursing school ius tough and when you graduate - there is a real sense of self accomplishment - it has great meaning.

Those are just some that have come to mind .... if you have any - let me know.

I also loved the comment about "male nursing school":rotfl:

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