The books, the nursing orientation, the advice from friends...all say that you MUST have practical support from your family to get through nursing school, but what if your family is High Maintenance and has been really spoilt for years, because you've been a SAHM and housewife? Seriously, I have been trying to re-train my family for the past 18 months while doing my pre-req's, and now I'm due to start nursing school in August and they are still totally hopeless, no improvement whatsoever. This is really worrying me now, because there is no way I'm going to be able to do 100% of the housework, laundry, cooking, childcare and petcare when I'm at college for 8-12 hours a day. Hubby is no help at all - he's a company manager and has to go away on business often, and I never know what time he's going to be home from work, could be 6pm, or it could be 11pm. All our family are overseas, so I've no help from them, and I have an 8 year old girl, and a melodramatic/primadonna 13 year old girl who definately does NOT want to have to babysit her little sister every day after school until one of us happens to arrive home. To top it all, hubby's latest 'bright idea' has been to enroll in a Masters Degree, because he doesn't want to get bored and lonely if I'm going to be studying all the time!!! (a cookery course would have been more useful LOL!).
Seriously, I've tried to talk to my husband about this, but he never wants to talk about it - I don't think he even wants to think about having to do any housework or childcare, so he's ignoring the situation. What makes me really mad is that this whole nursing thing was HIS idea in the first place, because he thought it was time I had a career again.
Any ideas? - or should I just give them a straight ultimatum and threaten to quit the course if I'm not getting the help I need within 2 months of starting?
Anyone else had to deal with this?
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