Recently I admitted a patient in 5 point restraints going through ETOH withdrawal who needed Ativan IVP. A coworker and friend was helping to secure one of his wrists and when the patient wiggled, she slapped him on the hand and said "NO." Right then, at that moment, I wanted to say something, but I bit my tongue. This isn't the first time I've felt guilty about not saying something. A couple months ago, a coworker was verbally demeaning an elderly and demented patient of mine by mocking her to her face, which really ticked me off and I really almost said something to her as well.
I guess I just dont have the guts at the moment to say something. I guess I feel like since I'm one of the newest RNs there, that I will get crap for speaking out or criticizing something a more experienced nurse does. Also, the nurse I first mentioned is very very defensive and if I would have said something at that moment, I am quite positive she would have reacted in a 'dramatic way.' However, I am still feeling guilty. I guess I just needed to get it off my chest and hear what advice I could get from you guys.
Thanks in advance to all who reply...