Not long ago, the wife of one of my co-workers (I'll call him Joe) had a baby. When her labor pains started, he was immediately put on vacation, and returned when things had settled down at home. During his absence, he missed several days of call which he was scheduled for, which we covered by being bumped up one position in the call schedule. Since his return, he has not swapped call with anyone to "pay back" covering for him in his absence. (Not sour grapes on my part, I have no problem with what occurred so far.)
My wife is due in March. At the request of my boss, I put in for vacation for a couple of weeks in the general time frame that the baby is due. He asked me to do so "so no one else would schedule vacation at the same time." Joe (who also runs the call schedule) was not asked to do the same thing. Yesterday, Joe came to me in the middle of a case and said "Kevin, we have a problem with your vacation request. It seems you are supposed to be on call during the weekend of your vacation. So, to make it fair, I'll trade weekends with you, so you can be on call the weekend before your baby is due, and I'll cover your weekend. (I'm getting steamed as I write this.) I didn't want to make a scene in front of the OR staff or surgeon, so I simply agreed.
Am I getting angry over nothing? As some of you know, I'm not real happy with my current job situation, and I'm wondering if I am letting my overall dislike for the situation cloud my judgement. Or, would you feel, as I do, that someone is playing favorites?
Opinions please?
Kevin