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You can't make anyone who's competent seek medical attention. All you can do, as you have already, is encourage them. I'd be careful harping on about the potential risks too strongly, if I were you - it won't help and may make her more resistant, either because she's already afraid it's something serious or because she doesn't like being pushed.
I wonder why she told you about her issues... I would ask her that... and I would offer to go with her and hold her hand... she may be too frightened about what may be happening and put a brave front on... but I wouldn't nag or fuss... I tend to just listen to my friends and tell them I'm there if they need me, but the decision is ultimately theirs... whatever decision is made, I stand with them, no pressure, but lots of support...
Hope everything turns out ok...
it could be she doesnt need to go to the dr. is she going through a lot of stress lately? i suffer from stress induced IBS, the old term spastic colon more precisely describes the problem. you get stressed, parastolsis speeds up... tada diarrea! not everything requires a visit to the dr and some people are more apt to ride things out and see what happens.
My father was a family practitoner. He always said that only 10% of the patients who came to his offce each day really needed a doctor. The other 90% would get better in a few days all by themselves if they just used some common-sense and over-the-counter products. His primary job was to identify the that 10% and treat them -- and to reassure that other 90% that they were OK.
Now ... Please don't misinterpret my comments. Certainly there are some symptoms that should never be shrugged off. But some diarrhea for a few days might be nothing. If I were in your friend's situation, I wouldn't be going to the doctor yet, either. I'd be giving it a few more days unless there was some special reason to be concerned (e.g. evidence of bleedng, discomfort, etc.)
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How do you make someone go to the doctor if they do not believe they are sick?? My friend has had dirt like diarrhea for the past 3 days with no other symptoms. No cramping, vomiting ect. She does not believe that anything is wrong since she feels well. I explained to her the dangers of internal bleeding, ulcers and GI cancers, but she doesnt see the need in "wasting" money when she feels perfectly fine?? Any suggestions? Could she be right and nothing really wrong with her?!?